<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/" xmlns:slash="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/slash/" ><channel><title>Brooklyn Bugle &#187; tellthebartender</title> <atom:link href="http://brooklynbugle.com/author/tellthebartender/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" /><link>http://brooklynbugle.com</link> <description>On the web because paper is expensive</description> <lastBuildDate>Fri, 28 Jul 2017 14:10:30 +0000</lastBuildDate> <language>en-US</language> <sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod> <sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency> <generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=4.2.2</generator> <item><title>The Struggle Bus Episode 12: On Eating Disorders and Meddling Mothers, Dating While Queer, and Navigating Tricky Sibling Situations</title><link>http://brooklynbugle.com/2015/03/30/brooklyn-podcast-mental-health-episode-12-on-eating-disorders-and-meddling-mothers-dating-while-queer-and-navigating-tricky-sibling-situations/</link> <comments>http://brooklynbugle.com/2015/03/30/brooklyn-podcast-mental-health-episode-12-on-eating-disorders-and-meddling-mothers-dating-while-queer-and-navigating-tricky-sibling-situations/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Mon, 30 Mar 2015 12:26:49 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator><![CDATA[tellthebartender]]></dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Podcast]]></category> <category><![CDATA[the struggle bus]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/?p=49</guid> <description><![CDATA[In this episode Kate and Sally talk about those rare beautiful moments when you realize everything is (sort of) okay (for now). <br />(<a href="https://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/2015/03/30/episode-12-on-eating-disorders-and-meddling-mothers-dating-while-queer-and-navigating-tricky-sibling-situations/">via <a href="https://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com">The Struggle Bus</a></a>)</br>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://traffic.libsyn.com/strugglebus/SBFinal.m4a" >Listen to Episode 12</a></p><p><a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-struggle-bus/id904012068?mt=2" >Subscribe On iTunes</a></p><p><a href="https://open.spotify.com/user/heysallyt/playlist/6Qty4TUzKiUkb4BIUJJIUX!" >Listen To All Of Our Feel Good Songs On Our Spotify Playlist</a></p><p><span style="line-height:1.714285714;font-size:1rem;">In this episode Kate and <span class="il">Sally</span> talk about those rare beautiful moments when you realize everything is (sort of) okay (for now). Then they answer a listener email about dealing with an ~intense~ mom when a history of disordered eating is in the mix. Next up, they discuss an email from a listener about how to get (consensually) weird (in a queer way) when you’re assumed to be straight. Finally, they try to help a listener untangle a complicated sibling situation.</span></p><p><span style="line-height:1.714285714;font-size:1rem;">AND THE BEST NEWS EVER The Struggle Bus is a Spotify playlist <a href="https://open.spotify.com/user/heysallyt/playlist/6Qty4TUzKiUkb4BIUJJIUX!" >here</a>!</span></p><p><span style="line-height:1.714285714;font-size:1rem;">Have a question? Tweet at </span><a style="line-height:1.714285714;font-size:1rem;" href="https://twitter.com/spkheller" >Kate</a><span style="line-height:1.714285714;font-size:1rem;"> and </span><a style="line-height:1.714285714;font-size:1rem;" href="https://twitter.com/sallyt" >Sally</a><span style="line-height:1.714285714;font-size:1rem;"> or </span><a style="line-height:1.714285714;font-size:1rem;" href="https://twitter.com/StruggleBusPod" >the podcast</a><span style="line-height:1.714285714;font-size:1rem;">! Plus, find a “Struggle Buddy” on Twitter at </span><a style="line-height:1.714285714;font-size:1rem;" href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/strugglepodbuds420" >#StrugglePodBuds420</a><span style="line-height:1.714285714;font-size:1rem;">.</span></p><p>Theme song by <a href="http://martyscanlon.com/" >Marty Scanlon</a>!</p><p> <a rel="nofollow" href="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/gocomments/strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/49/"><img alt="" border="0" src="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/comments/strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/49/" /></a> <img alt="" border="0" src="https://pixel.wp.com/b.gif?host=strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com&#038;blog=71968296&#038;%23038;post=49&#038;%23038;subd=strugglebuspodcast&#038;%23038;ref=&#038;%23038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /></p><p class="syndicated-attribution"><br><a href="https://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/2015/03/30/episode-12-on-eating-disorders-and-meddling-mothers-dating-while-queer-and-navigating-tricky-sibling-situations/"><b>Source: The Struggle Bus</b></a><br> <a href="https://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/2015/03/30/episode-12-on-eating-disorders-and-meddling-mothers-dating-while-queer-and-navigating-tricky-sibling-situations/">https://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/2015/03/30/episode-12-on-eating-disorders-and-meddling-mothers-dating-while-queer-and-navigating-tricky-sibling-situations/</a></p>]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://brooklynbugle.com/2015/03/30/brooklyn-podcast-mental-health-episode-12-on-eating-disorders-and-meddling-mothers-dating-while-queer-and-navigating-tricky-sibling-situations/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> <enclosure url="http://traffic.libsyn.com/strugglebus/SBFinal.m4a" length="0" type="audio/mpeg" /> </item> <item><title>Tell the Bartender Episode 56: Dating Fables and Spanking Tables</title><link>http://brooklynbugle.com/2015/03/24/brooklyn-podcast-tell-the-bartneder-episode-56-dating-fables-and-spanking-tables/</link> <comments>http://brooklynbugle.com/2015/03/24/brooklyn-podcast-tell-the-bartneder-episode-56-dating-fables-and-spanking-tables/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Tue, 24 Mar 2015 16:05:02 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator><![CDATA[tellthebartender]]></dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Podcast]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Tell the Bartender]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://tellthebartender.com/?p=746</guid> <description><![CDATA[Listen to&#160;Episode 56: Dating Fables and Spanking Tables Download From iTunes Here In this Episode: &#8220;Tyler&#8221; tells us the best gift to bring for the host of&#160;a private sex party. Hint: it&#8217;s homemade. Then Keri recalls some shitty dating experiences.  <br />(<a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2015/03/24/episode-56-dating-fables-and-spanking-tables/">via <a href="http://tellthebartender.com">Tell The Bartender</a></a>)</br>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://traffic.libsyn.com/tellthebartender/TTB_-_3_24_15_11.35_AM.m4a" >Listen to Episode 56: Dating Fables and Spanking Tables</a></p><p><a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/tell-the-bartender/id595892497" >Download From iTunes Here</a></p><p>In this Episode:</p><p>&#8220;Tyler&#8221; tells us the best gift to bring for the host of a private sex party. Hint: it&#8217;s homemade. Then Keri recalls some shitty dating experiences. Unfortunately, that&#8217;s literal. Also, have a band or write songs? <a href="http://tellthebartender.com/contact/" >Submit</a> your own music to be featured on future shows! Like the show? <a href="http://tellthebartender.com/tips/" >Tip</a> The Bartender! Or give it <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/tell-the-bartender/id595892497" >5 stars</a>!</p><p>Guests:</p><p>Tyler is anonymous but we thank him for his candor.</p><p><a href="http://www.kerisetaro.com/" >Keri</a> is an actor, VO and commercial artist and yoga goddess. Here she is with the one and only Beckett (above)</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Music Credits:</p><p>“Setting Sun” by Chris Powers</p><p>&#8220;Bachelorette&#8221; by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/homogenic/id20833577" >Björk</a></p><p>&#8220;Pop Queen&#8221; by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/artist/ben-lee/id4427639" >Ben Lee</a></p><p>&#8220;Charmless Man&#8221; by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/artist/blur/id528564" >Blur</a></p><p>&#8220;Predictable&#8221; by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/discosis/id653726414" >Bran Van 3000</a></p><p>“Bottled in Cork” by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/artist/ted-leo-and-the-pharmacists/id216650487" >Ted Leo &amp; The Pharmacists</a></p><p>&nbsp;</p><p> <a rel="nofollow" href="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/gocomments/tellthebartender.wordpress.com/746/"><img alt="" border="0" src="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/comments/tellthebartender.wordpress.com/746/" /></a> <img alt="" border="0" src="http://pixel.wp.com/b.gif?host=tellthebartender.com&#038;blog=43650175&#038;%23038;post=746&#038;%23038;subd=tellthebartender&#038;%23038;ref=&#038;%23038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /></p><p class="syndicated-attribution"><br><a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2015/03/24/episode-56-dating-fables-and-spanking-tables/"><b>Source: Tell The Bartender</b></a><br> <a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2015/03/24/episode-56-dating-fables-and-spanking-tables/">http://tellthebartender.com/2015/03/24/episode-56-dating-fables-and-spanking-tables/</a></p>]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://brooklynbugle.com/2015/03/24/brooklyn-podcast-tell-the-bartneder-episode-56-dating-fables-and-spanking-tables/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> <enclosure url="http://traffic.libsyn.com/tellthebartender/TTB_-_3_24_15_11.35_AM.m4a" length="67781629" type="audio/mpeg" /> </item> <item><title>The Struggle Bus Episode 11: Taking a Therapy Hiatus as Self-Care and Hell is (Almost All) Other People For One Reason Or Another</title><link>http://brooklynbugle.com/2015/03/16/brooklyn-podcast-the-stuggle-therapy-self-help-wellness/</link> <comments>http://brooklynbugle.com/2015/03/16/brooklyn-podcast-the-stuggle-therapy-self-help-wellness/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Mon, 16 Mar 2015 04:26:46 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator><![CDATA[tellthebartender]]></dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Podcast]]></category> <category><![CDATA[the struggle bus]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/?p=40</guid> <description><![CDATA[In this episode Kate and Sally talk about why rainy days are the best days and how taking a break from therapy is the ultimate self-care.  <br />(<a href="https://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/2015/03/16/episode-11-taking-a-therapy-hiatus-as-self-care-and-hell-is-almost-all-other-people-for-one-reason-or-another/">via <a href="https://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com">The Struggle Bus</a></a>)</br>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://hwcdn.libsyn.com/p/f/a/8/fa815affc6515bff/SB2_-_3_16_15_12.14_AM.m4a?c_id=8567504&amp;expiration=1426483212&amp;hwt=eb77fbd898c12152fa91d8ae8783d0fd" >Listen to Episode 11</a></p><p><a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-struggle-bus/id904012068?mt=2" >Subscribe On iTunes</a></p><p>In this episode Kate and Sally talk about why rainy days are the best days and how taking a break from therapy is the ultimate self-care. They answer listener emails about making friends when you’re socially awkward, dealing with people when you hate all people, and how to cope with emotionally abusive family members without abandoning your siblings. Oh, and enjoy the non-denominational Easter egg at this episode’s conclusion!</p><p>Have a question? Tweet at <a href="https://twitter.com/spkheller" >Kate</a> and <a href="https://twitter.com/sallyt" >Sally</a> or <a href="https://twitter.com/StruggleBusPod" >the podcast</a>! Plus, find a “Struggle Buddy” on Twitter at <a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/strugglepodbuds420" >#StrugglePodBuds420</a>.</p><p>Theme song by <a href="http://martyscanlon.com/" >Marty Scanlon</a>!</p><p><a href="https://strugglebuspodcast.files.wordpress.com/2014/08/cropped-strugglebus_facebook1.png"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-5" src="https://strugglebuspodcast.files.wordpress.com/2014/08/cropped-strugglebus_facebook1.png?w=625" alt="cropped-strugglebus_facebook1.png"   /></a></p><p> <a rel="nofollow" href="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/gocomments/strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/40/"><img alt="" border="0" src="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/comments/strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/40/" /></a> <img alt="" border="0" src="https://pixel.wp.com/b.gif?host=strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com&#038;blog=71968296&#038;%23038;post=40&#038;%23038;subd=strugglebuspodcast&#038;%23038;ref=&#038;%23038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /></p><p class="syndicated-attribution"><br><a href="https://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/2015/03/16/episode-11-taking-a-therapy-hiatus-as-self-care-and-hell-is-almost-all-other-people-for-one-reason-or-another/"><b>Source: The Struggle Bus</b></a><br> <a href="https://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/2015/03/16/episode-11-taking-a-therapy-hiatus-as-self-care-and-hell-is-almost-all-other-people-for-one-reason-or-another/">https://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/2015/03/16/episode-11-taking-a-therapy-hiatus-as-self-care-and-hell-is-almost-all-other-people-for-one-reason-or-another/</a></p>]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://brooklynbugle.com/2015/03/16/brooklyn-podcast-the-stuggle-therapy-self-help-wellness/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> <enclosure url="https://strugglebuspodcast.files.wordpress.com/2014/08/cropped-strugglebus_facebook1.png" length="" type="" /> <enclosure url="http://hwcdn.libsyn.com/p/f/a/8/fa815affc6515bff/SB2_-_3_16_15_12.14_AM.m4a?c_id=8567504&amp;amp" length="0" type="audio/mpeg" /> </item> <item><title>Tell the Bartender Episode 55: If You See Something, Say Something (Even If It Takes A Few Years)</title><link>http://brooklynbugle.com/2015/03/10/brooklyn-podcast-tell-the-bartender-episode-55-if-you-see-something-say-something-even-if-it-takes-a-few-years/</link> <comments>http://brooklynbugle.com/2015/03/10/brooklyn-podcast-tell-the-bartender-episode-55-if-you-see-something-say-something-even-if-it-takes-a-few-years/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Tue, 10 Mar 2015 14:52:16 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator><![CDATA[tellthebartender]]></dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Podcast]]></category> <category><![CDATA[bartending]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Big City Stories]]></category> <category><![CDATA[chris powers]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Katharine Heller]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Mike Guild]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Stories]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Ted Leo and the Pharmacists]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Tell the Bartender]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Tommy O'Malley]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://tellthebartender.com/?p=733</guid> <description><![CDATA[Mike tells a story that he&#160;has never told anyone (even his wife) and The Bartender is, for the first time, at a loss for words.&#160;Then Tommy talks about the idea of &#8220;casual racism&#8221; <br />(<a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2015/03/10/episode-55-if-you-see-something-say-something-even-if-it-takes-a-few-years/">via <a href="http://tellthebartender.com">Tell The Bartender</a></a>)</br>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://traffic.libsyn.com/tellthebartender/MT2_-_3_10_15_10.37_AM.m4a" target="_blank" >Listen to Episode 55: If You See Something, Say Something (Even If It Takes A Few Years)</a></p><p><a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/tell-the-bartender/id595892497" >Download From iTunes Here</a></p><p>In this Episode:</p><p>Mike tells a story that he has never told anyone (even his wife) and The Bartender is, for the first time, at a loss for words. Then Tommy talks about the idea of &#8220;casual racism&#8221;, which culminates with a story about what NOT to do when you &#8220;see something&#8221; suspicious on the train. Like the show?  <a href="http://tellthebartender.com/tips/" >Tip</a> The Bartender! Or give it <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/tell-the-bartender/id595892497" >5 stars</a>!</p><p>Guests:</p><p>Mike Guild is a comedian and storyteller in NYC. He hosts a movie based show at <a href="http://creeklic.com/" >Creek and the Cave</a> called <em><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iLQB45eZXyQ" >Movie Night with Mike</a>, </em>and is the producer of the storytelling open mic &#8220;The Dump&#8221; hosted by Jake Hart. He also is the head writer and director of the sketch team <a href="https://www.facebook.com/HOTBEEFCOMEDY" >HOT BEEF</a>. Follow him on Twitter <a href="https://twitter.com/MikeGuildNYC" >@MikeGuildNYC</a>. Here he is looking mysterious:<em><a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2015/03/184441_4825939042123_1188515362_n.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-737" src="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2015/03/184441_4825939042123_1188515362_n.jpg?w=625" alt="184441_4825939042123_1188515362_n"   /></a></em></p><p>Tommy O’Malley is a Brooklyn-based writer, blogger and storyteller. His work has appeared in the Austin American-Statesman, Queerty, Swagger New York and more. He hosts “<a href="https://www.facebook.com/bigcitystories" >Big City Stories</a>”, a monthly storytelling show in Manhattan, and appears regularly on other shows and podcasts, including “RISK!” (hosted by Kevin Allison) and “What Are You Afraid Of?” (hosted by Mara Wilson). He is an editorial intern and member of the Field Research Team at the NYC-based theater company The Civilians. Follow him on Twitter <a href="https://twitter.com/tommyomalley" >@tommyomalley</a>. Here he is looking sharp:</p><p><a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2015/03/otommy1-r1-046-21a.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-741" src="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2015/03/otommy1-r1-046-21a.jpg?w=625&#038;h=412" alt="oTOMMY1-R1-046-21A" width="625" height="412" /></a></p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Music Credits:</p><p>“Setting Sun” by Chris Powers</p><p>&#8220;L.S.F.&#8221; by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/kasabian/id254328852" >Kasabian</a></p><p>&#8220;Farrar, Straus And Giroux (Sea Of Tears)&#8221; by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/streethawk-a-seduction/id366344517" >Destroyer</a></p><p>&#8220;Music To Watch Girls By&#8221; by <a href="http://www.last.fm/music/The+James+Taylor+Quartet/_/Music+To+Watch+Girls+By" >The James Taylor Quartet</a></p><p>&#8220;Laid&#8221; by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/laid/id372592" >James</a></p><p>“Bottled in Cork” by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/artist/ted-leo-and-the-pharmacists/id216650487" >Ted Leo &amp; The Pharmacists</a></p><p> <a rel="nofollow" href="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/gocomments/tellthebartender.wordpress.com/733/"><img alt="" border="0" src="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/comments/tellthebartender.wordpress.com/733/" /></a> <img alt="" border="0" src="http://pixel.wp.com/b.gif?host=tellthebartender.com&#038;blog=43650175&#038;%23038;post=733&#038;%23038;subd=tellthebartender&#038;%23038;ref=&#038;%23038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /></p><p class="syndicated-attribution"><br><a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2015/03/10/episode-55-if-you-see-something-say-something-even-if-it-takes-a-few-years/"><b>Source: Tell The Bartender</b></a><br> <a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2015/03/10/episode-55-if-you-see-something-say-something-even-if-it-takes-a-few-years/">http://tellthebartender.com/2015/03/10/episode-55-if-you-see-something-say-something-even-if-it-takes-a-few-years/</a></p>]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://brooklynbugle.com/2015/03/10/brooklyn-podcast-tell-the-bartender-episode-55-if-you-see-something-say-something-even-if-it-takes-a-few-years/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> <enclosure url="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2015/03/184441_4825939042123_1188515362_n.jpg" length="" type="" /> <enclosure url="http://traffic.libsyn.com/tellthebartender/MT2_-_3_10_15_10.37_AM.m4a" length="0" type="audio/mpeg" /> </item> <item><title>Episode 10: On Weaponizing Heteronormativity and How No One Knows How to Do Relationships</title><link>http://brooklynbugle.com/2015/02/26/episode-10-on-weaponizing-heteronormativity-and-how-no-one-knows-how-to-do-relationships/</link> <comments>http://brooklynbugle.com/2015/02/26/episode-10-on-weaponizing-heteronormativity-and-how-no-one-knows-how-to-do-relationships/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Fri, 27 Feb 2015 02:18:09 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator><![CDATA[tellthebartender]]></dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Around Brooklyn]]></category> <category><![CDATA[the struggle bus]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/?p=38</guid> <description><![CDATA[In this episode: Kate and Sally catch you up on their lives, from how charming and wonderful Norm Lewis is to friend breakups that suck. They discuss emails from a couple of listeners, including one who has figured out the perfect way to trick aggressive bros out of leaving you alone in a bar. (Hint: It involves using heteronormativity as a weapon&#8230;in a subversive way.) They then answer a listener’s question about healthy relationships and how to, like, have one? (Spoiler: We can only guess.) <br />(<a href="https://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/2015/02/27/episode-10-on-weaponizing-heteronormativity-and-how-no-one-knows-how-to-do-relationships/">via <a href="https://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com">The Struggle Bus</a></a>)</br>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="entry-content"><p><a href="http://traffic.libsyn.com/strugglebus/SB_-_2_26_15_9.03_PM.m4a" >Listen to Episode 10</a></p><p><a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-struggle-bus/id904012068?mt=2" >Subscribe On iTunes</a></p><p>In this episode: Kate and Sally catch you up on their lives, from how charming and wonderful Norm Lewis is to friend breakups that suck. They discuss emails from a couple of listeners, including one who has figured out the perfect way to trick aggressive bros out of leaving you alone in a bar. (Hint: It involves using heteronormativity as a weapon&#8230;in a subversive way.) They then answer a listener’s question about healthy relationships and how to, like, have one? (Spoiler: We can only guess.)</p><p>Have a question? Tweet at <a href="https://twitter.com/spkheller" >Kate</a> and <a href="https://twitter.com/sallyt" >Sally</a> or The Podcast! Plus, find a &#8220;Struggle Buddy&#8221; on Twitter at <a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/strugglepodbuds" >#StrugglePodBuds</a> or the NEW <a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/strugglepodbuds420" >#StrugglePodBuds420</a> (we can explain).</p><p>Theme song by <a href="http://martyscanlon.com/" >Marty Scanlon</a>!</p></div><p>&nbsp;</p><p> <a rel="nofollow" href="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/gocomments/strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/38/"><img alt="" border="0" src="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/comments/strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/38/" /></a> <img alt="" border="0" src="https://pixel.wp.com/b.gif?host=strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com&#038;blog=71968296&#038;%23038;post=38&#038;%23038;subd=strugglebuspodcast&#038;%23038;ref=&#038;%23038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /></p><p class="syndicated-attribution"><br><a href="https://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/2015/02/27/episode-10-on-weaponizing-heteronormativity-and-how-no-one-knows-how-to-do-relationships/"><b>Source: The Struggle Bus</b></a><br> <a href="https://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/2015/02/27/episode-10-on-weaponizing-heteronormativity-and-how-no-one-knows-how-to-do-relationships/">https://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/2015/02/27/episode-10-on-weaponizing-heteronormativity-and-how-no-one-knows-how-to-do-relationships/</a></p>]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://brooklynbugle.com/2015/02/26/episode-10-on-weaponizing-heteronormativity-and-how-no-one-knows-how-to-do-relationships/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> <enclosure url="https://0.gravatar.com/avatar/0975b89c48d2fc9b7ab4940d0615a2be?s=96&amp;amp;d=identicon&amp;amp;r=G" length="" type="" /> <enclosure url="http://traffic.libsyn.com/strugglebus/SB_-_2_26_15_9.03_PM.m4a" length="51820983" type="audio/mpeg" /> </item> <item><title>Episode 54: LIVE with Norm Lewis and The Bitchy Waiter!</title><link>http://brooklynbugle.com/2015/02/24/episode-54-live-with-norm-lewis-and-the-bitchy-waiter/</link> <comments>http://brooklynbugle.com/2015/02/24/episode-54-live-with-norm-lewis-and-the-bitchy-waiter/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Wed, 25 Feb 2015 02:27:42 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator><![CDATA[tellthebartender]]></dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[News]]></category> <category><![CDATA[bartending]]></category> <category><![CDATA[bitchy waiter]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Craigslist ad or casting notice]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Katharine Heller]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Norm Lewis]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Phantom of the Opera]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Podcast]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Stories]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Tell the Bartender]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Tell The Bartender Live]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category> <category><![CDATA[union hall]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://tellthebartender.com/?p=718</guid> <description><![CDATA[The Bartender is joined by <a href="https://twitter.com/normlewis777" >Norm Lewis</a> and <a href="http://thebitchywaiter.com/" >The Bitchy Waiter</a> for another wonderful live show. PLUS a listener shout out, and we play Craigslist Ad or Casting Notice with Jordan McDonough! Recorded at Union Hall in Brooklyn, NY.  <br />(<a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2015/02/23/episode-54-live-with-norm-lewis-and-the-bitchy-waiter/">via <a href="http://tellthebartender.com">Tell The Bartender</a></a>)</br>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://traffic.libsyn.com/tellthebartender/ShowFinal2_-_2_23_15_9.20_AM.m4a" >Listen to Episode 54: LIVE with Norm Lewis and The Bitchy Waiter!</a></p><p><a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/tell-the-bartender/id595892497" >Download From iTunes Here</a></p><p>In this Episode:</p><p>The Bartender is joined by <a href="https://twitter.com/normlewis777" >Norm Lewis</a> and <a href="http://thebitchywaiter.com/" >The Bitchy Waiter</a> for another wonderful live show. PLUS a listener shout out, and we play Craigslist Ad or Casting Notice with Jordan McDonough! Recorded at Union Hall in Brooklyn, NY. Like the show? <a href="http://tellthebartender.com/tips/" >Tip</a> The Bartender! Or give it <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/tell-the-bartender/id595892497" >5 stars</a>!</p><p>Pics by the amazing Tom Scola:</p><p><a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2015/02/10915037_10152611767040925_8484657072427763622_o.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-720" src="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2015/02/10915037_10152611767040925_8484657072427763622_o.jpg?w=625&#038;h=469" alt="10915037_10152611767040925_8484657072427763622_o" width="625" height="469" /></a> <a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2015/02/10915077_10152611766600925_1458368233717276580_o.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-721" src="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2015/02/10915077_10152611766600925_1458368233717276580_o.jpg?w=625&#038;h=469" alt="10915077_10152611766600925_1458368233717276580_o" width="625" height="469" /></a> <a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2015/02/10960183_10152611766590925_3898049713802890093_o-1.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-722" src="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2015/02/10960183_10152611766590925_3898049713802890093_o-1.jpg?w=625&#038;h=469" alt="10960183_10152611766590925_3898049713802890093_o (1)" width="625" height="469" /></a> <a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2015/02/10984549_10152611767015925_6437219539079821524_o.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-723" src="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2015/02/10984549_10152611767015925_6437219539079821524_o.jpg?w=625&#038;h=833" alt="10984549_10152611767015925_6437219539079821524_o" width="625" height="833" /></a> <a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2015/02/10991714_10152611765950925_1892959048939934066_o-1.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-724" src="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2015/02/10991714_10152611765950925_1892959048939934066_o-1.jpg?w=625&#038;h=469" alt="10991714_10152611765950925_1892959048939934066_o (1)" width="625" height="469" /></a> <a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2015/02/10998310_10152611765945925_2722756596577171087_o-1.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-725" src="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2015/02/10998310_10152611765945925_2722756596577171087_o-1.jpg?w=625&#038;h=469" alt="10998310_10152611765945925_2722756596577171087_o (1)" width="625" height="469" /></a></p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Music Credits:</p><p>“Setting Sun” by Chris Powers</p><p>“Bottled in Cork” by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/artist/ted-leo-and-the-pharmacists/id216650487" >Ted Leo &amp; The Pharmacists</a></p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p> <a rel="nofollow" href="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/gocomments/tellthebartender.wordpress.com/718/"><img alt="" border="0" src="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/comments/tellthebartender.wordpress.com/718/" /></a> <img alt="" border="0" src="http://pixel.wp.com/b.gif?host=tellthebartender.com&#038;blog=43650175&#038;%23038;post=718&#038;%23038;subd=tellthebartender&#038;%23038;ref=&#038;%23038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /></p><p class="syndicated-attribution"><br><a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2015/02/23/episode-54-live-with-norm-lewis-and-the-bitchy-waiter/"><b>Source: Tell The Bartender</b></a><br> <a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2015/02/23/episode-54-live-with-norm-lewis-and-the-bitchy-waiter/">http://tellthebartender.com/2015/02/23/episode-54-live-with-norm-lewis-and-the-bitchy-waiter/</a></p>]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://brooklynbugle.com/2015/02/24/episode-54-live-with-norm-lewis-and-the-bitchy-waiter/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> <enclosure url="http://0.gravatar.com/avatar/0975b89c48d2fc9b7ab4940d0615a2be?s=96&amp;amp;d=identicon&amp;amp;r=G" length="" type="" /> <enclosure url="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2015/02/10854934_10152611766285925_7607871558039342619_o.jpg?w=625" length="" type="" /> <enclosure url="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2015/02/10915037_10152611767040925_8484657072427763622_o.jpg?w=625" length="" type="" /> <enclosure url="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2015/02/10915077_10152611766600925_1458368233717276580_o.jpg?w=625" length="" type="" /> <enclosure url="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2015/02/10960183_10152611766590925_3898049713802890093_o-1.jpg?w=625" length="" type="" /> <enclosure url="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2015/02/10984549_10152611767015925_6437219539079821524_o.jpg?w=625" length="" type="" /> <enclosure url="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2015/02/10991714_10152611765950925_1892959048939934066_o-1.jpg?w=625" length="" type="" /> <enclosure url="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2015/02/10998310_10152611765945925_2722756596577171087_o-1.jpg?w=625" length="" type="" /> <enclosure url="http://traffic.libsyn.com/tellthebartender/ShowFinal2_-_2_23_15_9.20_AM.m4a" length="0" type="audio/mpeg" /> </item> <item><title>The Struggle Bus Episode 9: WTF You’re Supposed To Do When A Bully From Your Former Life Is Back In Your World and WTF Therapy Is Really Like</title><link>http://brooklynbugle.com/2015/02/13/the-struggle-bus-podcast-episode-9-wtf-youre-supposed-to-do-when-a-bully-from-your-former-life-is-back-in-your-world-and-wtf-therapy-is-really-like/</link> <comments>http://brooklynbugle.com/2015/02/13/the-struggle-bus-podcast-episode-9-wtf-youre-supposed-to-do-when-a-bully-from-your-former-life-is-back-in-your-world-and-wtf-therapy-is-really-like/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Fri, 13 Feb 2015 23:14:16 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator><![CDATA[tellthebartender]]></dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Podcast]]></category> <category><![CDATA[the struggle bus]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/?p=36</guid> <description><![CDATA[In this episode: Kate and Sally read some incredible iTunes reviews, unveil a brilliant new way to incorporate your questions into the show, and get excited about <a href="http://www.broadwayworld.com/cabaret/article/Broadway-Vet-Norm-Lewis-to-Join-TELL-THE-BARTENDER-LIVE-Next-Week-20150210#.VNvZv10aGKU.twitter" >Norm Lewis</a>. <br />(<a href="https://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/2015/02/13/episode-9-wtf-youre-supposed-to-do-when-a-bully-from-your-former-life-is-back-in-your-world-and-wtf-therapy-is-really-like/">via <a href="https://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com">The Struggle Bus</a></a>)</br>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://traffic.libsyn.com/strugglebus/SB9_-_2_12_15_8.58_PM.m4a" >Listen to Episode 9</a></p><p><a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-struggle-bus/id904012068?mt=2" >Subscribe On iTunes</a></p><p>In this episode: Kate and Sally read some incredible iTunes reviews, unveil a brilliant new way to incorporate your questions into the show, and get excited about <a href="http://www.broadwayworld.com/cabaret/article/Broadway-Vet-Norm-Lewis-to-Join-TELL-THE-BARTENDER-LIVE-Next-Week-20150210#.VNvZv10aGKU.twitter" >Norm Lewis</a>. They then read a letter from a listener who wants advice on how to deal with sharing a college campus with a stalker/bully from her past. Then Kate and Sally wax rambly about therapy—what it&#8217;s like, what you can expect, how you know you have a good therapist, and much more.</p><p>Have a question? Tweet at <a href="https://twitter.com/spkheller" >Kate</a> and <a href="https://twitter.com/sallyt" >Sally</a>!</p><p>Theme song by <a href="http://martyscanlon.com/" >Marty Scanlon</a>!</p><p> <a rel="nofollow" href="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/gocomments/strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/36/"><img alt="" border="0" src="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/comments/strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/36/" /></a> <img alt="" border="0" src="https://pixel.wp.com/b.gif?host=strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com&#038;blog=71968296&#038;%23038;post=36&#038;%23038;subd=strugglebuspodcast&#038;%23038;ref=&#038;%23038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /></p><p class="syndicated-attribution"><br><a href="https://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/2015/02/13/episode-9-wtf-youre-supposed-to-do-when-a-bully-from-your-former-life-is-back-in-your-world-and-wtf-therapy-is-really-like/"><b>Source: The Struggle Bus</b></a><br> <a href="https://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/2015/02/13/episode-9-wtf-youre-supposed-to-do-when-a-bully-from-your-former-life-is-back-in-your-world-and-wtf-therapy-is-really-like/">https://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/2015/02/13/episode-9-wtf-youre-supposed-to-do-when-a-bully-from-your-former-life-is-back-in-your-world-and-wtf-therapy-is-really-like/</a></p>]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://brooklynbugle.com/2015/02/13/the-struggle-bus-podcast-episode-9-wtf-youre-supposed-to-do-when-a-bully-from-your-former-life-is-back-in-your-world-and-wtf-therapy-is-really-like/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> <enclosure url="http://traffic.libsyn.com/strugglebus/SB9_-_2_12_15_8.58_PM.m4a" length="37328517" type="audio/mpeg" /> </item> <item><title>Tell the Bartender Episode 52: BONUS! The Immortal Serial</title><link>http://brooklynbugle.com/2015/02/04/tell-the-bartender-episode-52-bonus-the-immortal-serial/</link> <comments>http://brooklynbugle.com/2015/02/04/tell-the-bartender-episode-52-bonus-the-immortal-serial/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Wed, 04 Feb 2015 17:24:35 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator><![CDATA[tellthebartender]]></dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Podcast]]></category> <category><![CDATA[burns night]]></category> <category><![CDATA[chris powers]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Forest Ray]]></category> <category><![CDATA[jordan kraft]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Katharine Heller]]></category> <category><![CDATA[npr]]></category> <category><![CDATA[sarah koenig]]></category> <category><![CDATA[serial]]></category> <category><![CDATA[storytelling]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Tell the Bartender]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://tellthebartender.com/?p=696</guid> <description><![CDATA[Listen to Episode 52: BONUS! The Immortal Serial Download From iTunes Here In this Episode: The Serial parody you&#8217;ve all been&#8230; <br />(<a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2015/02/04/episode-52-bonus-the-immortal-serial/">via <a href="http://tellthebartender.com">Tell The Bartender</a></a>)</br>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://traffic.libsyn.com/tellthebartender/ImmortalSerial_-_2_4_15_11.55_AM.m4a" >Listen to Episode 52: BONUS! The Immortal Serial</a></p><p><a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/tell-the-bartender/id595892497" >Download From iTunes Here</a></p><p>In this Episode:</p><p>The <em>Serial</em> parody you&#8217;ve all been waiting for! Every year, The Bartender&#8217;s friends celebrate the Scottish tradition of <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Burns_supper" >Burns Night</a>, which honors poet Robert Burns. There is haggis, scotch, tartan, scotch, poems, scotch and toasts. This year Forest Ray was given the task to tell the &#8220;Immortal Memory&#8221; which revolves around a very naughty poem by Burns. So he wrote a spoof of the popular and awesome NPR podcast <em><a href="http://serialpodcast.org/" >Serial</a>.</em> Here it is! Conceived by Forest Ray and Jordan Kraft, written by Forest Ray, with the vocal stylings of Forest, Jordan, Sharda Sekaran, Suparna Mukherjee, Alex Kveton and yours truly, Katharine, doing her best impersonation of the host of <em>Serial</em> Sarah Koenig (who Katharine just found out is her cousin).</p><p>PLUS listener shout out and news about the <a href="http://www.normlewis.com/" >SECOND AMAZING GUEST</a> for the next <a href="http://www.unionhallny.com/event/754557" >Tell The Bartender LIVE</a>! Also, a new episode of the advice show The Bartender co-hosts, <a href="https://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/2015/01/20/episode-7-a-dab-of-talk-about-bisexuality-why-its-never-too-late-to-start-over-even-though-it-always-feels-like-it-is-and-dealing-with-jealousy-and-control-in-relationships-no-matter-wh/" >The Struggle Bus</a>, is up. Like the show? <a href="http://tellthebartender.com/tips/" >Tip</a> The Bartender! Or give it <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/tell-the-bartender/id595892497" >5 stars</a>!</p><p>Photos from Burns Night by Elizabeth Hutchinson:</p><p><a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2015/02/photo-2-3.jpg"><br /> </a><img class="aligncenter wp-image-702 size-large" src="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2015/02/photo-4-1.jpg?w=625&#038;h=839" alt="photo 4 (1)"   /></p><p><a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2015/02/photo-1-3.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-700" src="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2015/02/photo-3-3.jpg?w=625&#038;h=839" alt="photo 3 (3)"   /><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-699" src="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2015/02/photo-2-3.jpg?w=625&#038;h=839" alt="photo 2 (3)"   /></a><a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2015/02/photo-1-3.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-698" src="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2015/02/photo-1-3.jpg?w=625&#038;h=839" alt="photo 1 (3)"   /></a></p><p><a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2015/02/photo-3-4.jpg"><img class="aligncenter wp-image-701 size-large" src="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2015/02/photo-3-4.jpg?w=625&#038;h=839" alt="photo 3 (4)"   /></a></p><p>Music Credits:</p><p>“Setting Sun” by Chris Powers</p><p>&#8220;Bad Dream (The Theme From Serial)&#8221; by <a href="http://nickdiamonds.bandcamp.com/album/music-from-serial" >Nick Thorburn</a></p><p>“Bottled in Cork” by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/artist/ted-leo-and-the-pharmacists/id216650487" >Ted Leo &amp; The Pharmacists</a></p><p> <a rel="nofollow" href="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/gocomments/tellthebartender.wordpress.com/696/"><img alt="" border="0" src="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/comments/tellthebartender.wordpress.com/696/" /></a> <img alt="" border="0" src="http://pixel.wp.com/b.gif?host=tellthebartender.com&#038;blog=43650175&#038;%23038;post=696&#038;%23038;subd=tellthebartender&#038;%23038;ref=&#038;%23038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /></p><p class="syndicated-attribution"><br><a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2015/02/04/episode-52-bonus-the-immortal-serial/"><b>Source: Tell The Bartender</b></a><br> <a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2015/02/04/episode-52-bonus-the-immortal-serial/">http://tellthebartender.com/2015/02/04/episode-52-bonus-the-immortal-serial/</a></p>]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://brooklynbugle.com/2015/02/04/tell-the-bartender-episode-52-bonus-the-immortal-serial/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> <enclosure url="http://traffic.libsyn.com/tellthebartender/ImmortalSerial_-_2_4_15_11.55_AM.m4a" length="45217696" type="audio/mpeg" /> </item> <item><title>The Struggle Bus Episode 8: Caring For a Partner (Who Sometimes Faints or Falls Down) and Porn, Sex, and Mismatched Sex Drives. Plus, EMDR and labels</title><link>http://brooklynbugle.com/2015/01/30/the-struggle-bus-episode-8-caring-for-a-partner-who-sometimes-faints-or-falls-down-and-porn-sex-and-mismatched-sex-drives-plus-emdr-and-labels/</link> <comments>http://brooklynbugle.com/2015/01/30/the-struggle-bus-episode-8-caring-for-a-partner-who-sometimes-faints-or-falls-down-and-porn-sex-and-mismatched-sex-drives-plus-emdr-and-labels/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Fri, 30 Jan 2015 15:08:08 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator><![CDATA[tellthebartender]]></dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Podcast]]></category> <category><![CDATA[the struggle bus]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/?p=34</guid> <description><![CDATA[Listen to Episode 8 Subscribe On iTunes In this episode Kate and Sally share some recent health scares (everyone’s fine!) in their lives and their feelings about how complicated relationships become when one partner cares for the other. They then discuss a listener’s letter about being stressed out social worker who is six months pregnant and [&#8230;]<img alt="" border="0" src="https://pixel.wp.com/b.gif?host=strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com&#38;blog=71968296&#38;post=34&#38;subd=strugglebuspodcast&#38;ref=&#38;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /> <br />(<a href="https://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/2015/01/30/episode-8-caring-for-a-partner-who-sometimes-faints-or-falls-down-and-porn-sex-and-mismatched-sex-drives-plus-emdr-and-labels/">via <a href="https://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com">The Struggle Bus</a></a>)</br>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://traffic.libsyn.com/strugglebus/SB2Big_-_1_29_15_11.51_PM.m4a" >Listen to Episode 8</a></p><p><a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-struggle-bus/id904012068?mt=2" >Subscribe On iTunes</a></p><p>In this episode Kate and Sally share some recent health scares (everyone’s fine!) in their lives and their feelings about how complicated relationships become when one partner cares for the other. They then discuss a listener’s letter about being stressed out social worker who is six months pregnant and is dealing with a sex drive that’s bumming her out. Finally, they resurrect (yet again!) the conversation about identity and sexuality and the elasticity of the labels we use.</p><p>Have a question? Tweet at <a href="https://twitter.com/spkheller" >Kate</a> and <a href="https://twitter.com/sallyt" >Sally</a>!</p><p>Theme song by <a href="http://martyscanlon.com/" >Marty Scanlon</a>!</p><p> <a rel="nofollow" href="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/gocomments/strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/34/"><img alt="" border="0" src="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/comments/strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/34/" /></a> <img alt="" border="0" src="https://pixel.wp.com/b.gif?host=strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com&#038;blog=71968296&#038;%23038;post=34&#038;%23038;subd=strugglebuspodcast&#038;%23038;ref=&#038;%23038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /></p><p class="syndicated-attribution"><br><a href="https://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/2015/01/30/episode-8-caring-for-a-partner-who-sometimes-faints-or-falls-down-and-porn-sex-and-mismatched-sex-drives-plus-emdr-and-labels/"><b>Source: The Struggle Bus</b></a><br> <a href="https://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/2015/01/30/episode-8-caring-for-a-partner-who-sometimes-faints-or-falls-down-and-porn-sex-and-mismatched-sex-drives-plus-emdr-and-labels/">https://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/2015/01/30/episode-8-caring-for-a-partner-who-sometimes-faints-or-falls-down-and-porn-sex-and-mismatched-sex-drives-plus-emdr-and-labels/</a></p>]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://brooklynbugle.com/2015/01/30/the-struggle-bus-episode-8-caring-for-a-partner-who-sometimes-faints-or-falls-down-and-porn-sex-and-mismatched-sex-drives-plus-emdr-and-labels/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> <enclosure url="http://traffic.libsyn.com/strugglebus/SB2Big_-_1_29_15_11.51_PM.m4a" length="55648466" type="audio/mpeg" /> </item> <item><title>Tell the Bartender Episode 51: High/Low and Stitch</title><link>http://brooklynbugle.com/2015/01/24/tell-the-bartender-episode-51-highlow-and-stitch/</link> <comments>http://brooklynbugle.com/2015/01/24/tell-the-bartender-episode-51-highlow-and-stitch/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sat, 24 Jan 2015 05:16:03 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator><![CDATA[tellthebartender]]></dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Podcast]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Andrea Allan]]></category> <category><![CDATA[bartending]]></category> <category><![CDATA[bitchy waiter]]></category> <category><![CDATA[chris powers]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Forest Ray]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Katharine Heller]]></category> <category><![CDATA[MailChimp]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Stories]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Ted Leo and the Pharmacists]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Tell the Bartender]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://tellthebartender.com/?p=684</guid> <description><![CDATA[Listen to Episode 51: High/Low and Stitch Download From iTunes Here In this Episode: Andrea recalls a series of events that lead to a major life change, and Forest talks about performing what should have been a simple procedure during his time as an Army medic in Iraq. PLUS listener shout outs and news about the next Tell The Bartender [&#8230;]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://pixel.wp.com/b.gif?host=tellthebartender.com&#38;blog=43650175&#38;post=684&#38;subd=tellthebartender&#38;ref=&#38;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /> <br />(<a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2015/01/21/episode-51-highlow-and-stitch/">via <a href="http://tellthebartender.com">Tell The Bartender</a></a>)</br>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://traffic.libsyn.com/tellthebartender/AandJ_-_1_21_15_10.04_AM.m4a" >Listen to Episode 51: High/Low and Stitch</a></p><p><a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/tell-the-bartender/id595892497" >Download From iTunes Here</a></p><p>In this Episode:</p><p>Andrea recalls a series of events that lead to a major life change, and Forest talks about performing what should have been a simple procedure during his time as an Army medic in Iraq.</p><p>PLUS listener shout outs and news about the next <a href="http://www.unionhallny.com/event/754557" >Tell The Bartender LIVE</a>! Also, a new episode of the advice show The Bartender co-hosts, <a href="https://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/2015/01/20/episode-7-a-dab-of-talk-about-bisexuality-why-its-never-too-late-to-start-over-even-though-it-always-feels-like-it-is-and-dealing-with-jealousy-and-control-in-relationships-no-matter-wh/" >The Struggle Bus</a>, is up. Like the show? <a href="http://tellthebartender.com/tips/" >Tip</a> The Bartender! Or give it <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/tell-the-bartender/id595892497" >5 stars</a>!</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/andrea.allan.9?fref=ts" >Andrea Allan</a> is an awesome comedian, person, and you should follow her on <a href="https://twitter.com/Mandrea_Allan" >Twitter</a>. Here she is being a badass:</p><div class="entry-content"><p><a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2015/01/10329716_10152372686272247_7210771923584473009_o.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-688" src="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2015/01/10329716_10152372686272247_7210771923584473009_o.jpg?w=625&#038;h=417" alt="10329716_10152372686272247_7210771923584473009_o" width="625" height="417" /></a></p><p>Forest Ray is a biochemist, an avid outdoorsman, and home brews his own beer. Here he is doing something amazing somewhere cold:</p><p><a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2015/01/268352_246803288668120_2664912_n.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-689" src="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2015/01/268352_246803288668120_2664912_n.jpg?w=625&#038;h=469" alt="268352_246803288668120_2664912_n" width="625" height="469" /></a></p><p>Music Credits:</p><p>“Setting Sun” by Chris Powers</p><p>&#8220;Debaser&#8221; by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/doolittle/id7060469" >Pixies</a></p><p>&#8220;Just Like Heaven&#8221; by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/artist/the-watson-twins/id117038092" >The Watson Twins</a></p><p>&#8220;What Do I Get&#8221; by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/artist/buzzcocks/id468584" >Buzzcocks</a></p><p>&#8220;The Stars of Track and Field&#8221; by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/if-youre-feeling-sinister/id297357200" >Belle and Sebastian </a></p><p>“Bottled in Cork” by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/artist/ted-leo-and-the-pharmacists/id216650487" >Ted Leo &amp; The Pharmacists</a></p></div><p> <a rel="nofollow" href="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/gocomments/tellthebartender.wordpress.com/684/"><img alt="" border="0" src="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/comments/tellthebartender.wordpress.com/684/" /></a> <img alt="" border="0" src="http://pixel.wp.com/b.gif?host=tellthebartender.com&#038;blog=43650175&#038;%23038;post=684&#038;%23038;subd=tellthebartender&#038;%23038;ref=&#038;%23038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /></p><p class="syndicated-attribution"><br><a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2015/01/21/episode-51-highlow-and-stitch/"><b>Source: Tell The Bartender</b></a><br> <a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2015/01/21/episode-51-highlow-and-stitch/">http://tellthebartender.com/2015/01/21/episode-51-highlow-and-stitch/</a></p>]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://brooklynbugle.com/2015/01/24/tell-the-bartender-episode-51-highlow-and-stitch/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> <enclosure url="http://traffic.libsyn.com/tellthebartender/AandJ_-_1_21_15_10.04_AM.m4a" length="47535192" type="audio/mpeg" /> </item> <item><title>The Struggle Bus Episode 7: A Dab of (Talk About) Bisexuality, Why It’s Never Too Late To Start Over Even Though It Always Feels Like It Is, and Dealing with Jealousy and Control in Relationships (No Matter Where You Live)</title><link>http://brooklynbugle.com/2015/01/20/tell-the-bartender-episode-7-a-dab-of-talk-about-bisexuality-why-its-never-too-late-to-start-over-even-though-it-always-feels-like-it-is-and-dealing-with-jealousy-and-control-in-relation/</link> <comments>http://brooklynbugle.com/2015/01/20/tell-the-bartender-episode-7-a-dab-of-talk-about-bisexuality-why-its-never-too-late-to-start-over-even-though-it-always-feels-like-it-is-and-dealing-with-jealousy-and-control-in-relation/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Tue, 20 Jan 2015 13:11:03 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator><![CDATA[tellthebartender]]></dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Podcast]]></category> <category><![CDATA[advice]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Katharine Heller]]></category> <category><![CDATA[marty scanlon]]></category> <category><![CDATA[sally tamarkin]]></category> <category><![CDATA[the struggle bus]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/?p=27</guid> <description><![CDATA[Listen to Episode 7 Subscribe On iTunes In this episode: The Zin is in and the shoes are off (literally). Sally talks about her first ever Christmas and Kate&#8217;s eventful (not in a good way) New Year&#8217;s Eve. Next up, Kate and Sally respond to a young single parent who wants to explore a new [&#8230;]<img alt="" border="0" src="https://pixel.wp.com/b.gif?host=strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com&#38;blog=71968296&#38;post=27&#38;subd=strugglebuspodcast&#38;ref=&#38;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /> <br />(<a href="https://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/2015/01/20/episode-7-a-dab-of-talk-about-bisexuality-why-its-never-too-late-to-start-over-even-though-it-always-feels-like-it-is-and-dealing-with-jealousy-and-control-in-relationships-no-matter-wh/">via <a href="https://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com">The Struggle Bus</a></a>)</br>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://traffic.libsyn.com/strugglebus/SB3_-_1_20_15_8.00_AM.m4a" >Listen to Episode 7</a></p><p><a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-struggle-bus/id904012068?mt=2" >Subscribe On iTunes</a></p><p>In this episode: The Zin is in and the shoes are off (literally). Sally talks about her first ever Christmas and Kate&#8217;s eventful (not in a good way) New Year&#8217;s Eve. Next up, Kate and Sally respond to a young single parent who wants to explore a new career but is wondering if it’s too late (spoiler alert: it’s not) and whether it&#8217;s good parenting to do so (spoiler alert: it is, and we explain why). Finally we respond to an email from a listener in Utah who wants to know what the hell is up with her feelings of jealousy and control in her otherwise open, trusting, and communicative relationship.</p><p>Have a question? Tweet at <a href="https://twitter.com/spkheller" >Kate</a> and <a href="https://twitter.com/sallyt" >Sally</a>!</p><p>Theme song by <a href="http://martyscanlon.com/" >Marty Scanlon</a>!</p><p> <a rel="nofollow" href="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/gocomments/strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/27/"><img alt="" border="0" src="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/comments/strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/27/" /></a> <img alt="" border="0" src="https://pixel.wp.com/b.gif?host=strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com&#038;blog=71968296&#038;%23038;post=27&#038;%23038;subd=strugglebuspodcast&#038;%23038;ref=&#038;%23038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /></p><p class="syndicated-attribution"><br><a href="https://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/2015/01/20/episode-7-a-dab-of-talk-about-bisexuality-why-its-never-too-late-to-start-over-even-though-it-always-feels-like-it-is-and-dealing-with-jealousy-and-control-in-relationships-no-matter-wh/"><b>Source: The Struggle Bus</b></a><br> <a href="https://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/2015/01/20/episode-7-a-dab-of-talk-about-bisexuality-why-its-never-too-late-to-start-over-even-though-it-always-feels-like-it-is-and-dealing-with-jealousy-and-control-in-relationships-no-matter-wh/">https://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/2015/01/20/episode-7-a-dab-of-talk-about-bisexuality-why-its-never-too-late-to-start-over-even-though-it-always-feels-like-it-is-and-dealing-with-jealousy-and-control-in-relationships-no-matter-wh/</a></p>]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://brooklynbugle.com/2015/01/20/tell-the-bartender-episode-7-a-dab-of-talk-about-bisexuality-why-its-never-too-late-to-start-over-even-though-it-always-feels-like-it-is-and-dealing-with-jealousy-and-control-in-relation/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> <enclosure url="http://traffic.libsyn.com/strugglebus/SB3_-_1_20_15_8.00_AM.m4a" length="0" type="audio/mpeg" /> </item> <item><title>Tell the Bartender Episode 50: Filing Solo</title><link>http://brooklynbugle.com/2015/01/04/tell-the-bartender-episode-50-filing-solo/</link> <comments>http://brooklynbugle.com/2015/01/04/tell-the-bartender-episode-50-filing-solo/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sun, 04 Jan 2015 07:14:32 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator><![CDATA[tellthebartender]]></dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Podcast]]></category> <category><![CDATA[bartending]]></category> <category><![CDATA[chris powers]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Frankie Mace]]></category> <category><![CDATA[hp]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Katharine Heller]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Liz Miele]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Stories]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Ted Leo and the Pharmacists]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Tell the Bartender]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Tell The Bartender Live]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://tellthebartender.com/?p=678</guid> <description><![CDATA[Listen to Episode 50: Filing Solo Download From iTunes Here In this Episode: Frankie joins The Bartender to talk about when she first realized that maybe you shouldn&#8217;t answer the door when you live alone. Even if it&#8217;s the lead paint inspector. Then Liz tells a very touching story about what she learned from her first love. It also involves a filing [&#8230;]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://pixel.wp.com/b.gif?host=tellthebartender.com&#38;blog=43650175&#38;post=678&#38;subd=tellthebartender&#38;ref=&#38;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /> <br />(<a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2015/01/04/episode-50-filing-solo/">via <a href="http://tellthebartender.com">Tell The Bartender</a></a>)</br>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://traffic.libsyn.com/tellthebartender/FL3_-_1_4_15_1.30_AM.m4a" >Listen to Episode 50: Filing Solo</a></p><p><a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/tell-the-bartender/id595892497" >Download From iTunes Here</a></p><p>In this Episode:</p><p>Frankie joins The Bartender to talk about when she first realized that maybe you shouldn&#8217;t answer the door when you live alone. Even if it&#8217;s the lead paint inspector. Then Liz tells a very touching story about what she learned from her first love. It also involves a filing cabinet.</p><p>PLUS listener shout outs and news about the next Tell The Bartender LIVE! Like the show? <a href="http://tellthebartender.com/tips/" >Tip</a> The Bartender! Or give it <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/tell-the-bartender/id595892497" >5 stars</a>!</p><p>Frankie Mace is an incredible sommelier, restaurant manager and person. Here she is showing off some sweet skills in a photo for the <a href="http://www.wsj.com/articles/opening-your-bottlefor-free-1412301206" >Wall Street Journal</a>:</p><p><a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2015/01/ny-df914_uncork_g_20141002165129.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-679" src="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2015/01/ny-df914_uncork_g_20141002165129.jpg?w=625" alt="NY-DF914_UNCORK_G_20141002165129"   /></a></p><p>&nbsp;</p><div class="entry-content"><p><a href="http://www.lizmiele.com/" >Liz Miele</a> is an amazing comedian, <a href="http://damagedwebseries.com/" >writer</a>, <a href="https://twitter.com/lizmiele" >tweeter</a>, and has a new comedy album you all should buy <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/emotionally-exhausting/id938456907" >here</a>, <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Emotionally-Exhausting-Explicit-Liz-Miele/dp/B00PGI7H7K/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1417236285&amp;sr=8-1&amp;keywords=liz+miele" >here</a> and <a href="http://www.cdbaby.com/cd/lizmiele" >here</a>. This is her just hanging out being awesome:</p><p><a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2015/01/standing-outside.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-680" src="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2015/01/standing-outside.jpg?w=625&#038;h=417" alt="Standing outside" width="625" height="417" /></a></p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Watch some of her comedy here!</p><p><span class='embed-youtube' style='text-align:center; display: block;'><iframe class='youtube-player' type='text/html' width='560' height='315' src='http://www.youtube.com/embed/FYtcaC8DEmc?version=3&#038;rel=0&#038;%23038;fs=1&#038;%23038;showsearch=0&#038;%23038;showinfo=1&#038;%23038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;%23038;wmode=transparent' frameborder='0' allowfullscreen='true'></iframe></span></p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Music Credits:</p><p>“Setting Sun” by Chris Powers</p><p>&#8220;Intergalactic&#8221; by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/artist/beastie-boys/id1971863" >Beastie Boys</a></p><p>&#8220;She&#8217;s So High&#8221; by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/artist/blur/id528564" >Blur</a></p><p>&#8220;Lloyd, I&#8217;m Ready To Be Heartbroken&#8221; by <a href="https://www.google.com/#q=lloyd+I%27m+ready+to+be+heartbroken+camera+obscura+itunes" >Camera Obscura</a></p><p>&#8220;Deceptacon&#8221; by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/le-tigre/id507045045" >Le Tigre </a></p><p>“Bottled in Cork” by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/artist/ted-leo-and-the-pharmacists/id216650487" >Ted Leo &amp; The Pharmacists</a></p></div><p>&nbsp;</p><p> <a rel="nofollow" href="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/gocomments/tellthebartender.wordpress.com/678/"><img alt="" border="0" src="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/comments/tellthebartender.wordpress.com/678/" /></a> <img alt="" border="0" src="http://pixel.wp.com/b.gif?host=tellthebartender.com&#038;blog=43650175&#038;%23038;post=678&#038;%23038;subd=tellthebartender&#038;%23038;ref=&#038;%23038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /></p><p class="syndicated-attribution"><br><a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2015/01/04/episode-50-filing-solo/"><b>Source: Tell The Bartender</b></a><br> <a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2015/01/04/episode-50-filing-solo/">http://tellthebartender.com/2015/01/04/episode-50-filing-solo/</a></p>]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://brooklynbugle.com/2015/01/04/tell-the-bartender-episode-50-filing-solo/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> <enclosure url="http://traffic.libsyn.com/tellthebartender/FL3_-_1_4_15_1.30_AM.m4a" length="60183916" type="audio/mpeg" /> </item> <item><title>Tell the Bartender Episode 49: Politics, Facebook and Friendship</title><link>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/12/17/tell-the-bartender-episode-49-politics-facebook-and-friendship/</link> <comments>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/12/17/tell-the-bartender-episode-49-politics-facebook-and-friendship/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Wed, 17 Dec 2014 20:27:27 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator><![CDATA[tellthebartender]]></dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Podcast]]></category> <category><![CDATA[bartending]]></category> <category><![CDATA[facebook]]></category> <category><![CDATA[hp]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Katharine Heller]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Korde Tuttle]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Shawn]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Stories]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Ted Leo and the Pharmacists]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Tell the Bartender]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://tellthebartender.com/?p=669</guid> <description><![CDATA[Listen to Episode 49: Politics, Facebook and Friendship Download From iTunes Here In this Episode: Shawn joins The Bartender to talk about political discourse in the age of social media, &#8220;Racebook&#8221;, and how he handles situations when the police are involved. Then Korde tells a story about a funny coincidence that happened when he first moved to New York. It&#8217;s kind [&#8230;]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://pixel.wp.com/b.gif?host=tellthebartender.com&#38;blog=43650175&#38;post=669&#38;subd=tellthebartender&#38;ref=&#38;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /> <br />(<a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2014/12/17/episode-49-politics-facebook-and-friendship/">via <a href="http://tellthebartender.com">Tell The Bartender</a></a>)</br>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://traffic.libsyn.com/tellthebartender/NY1_-_12_17_14_2.48_PM.m4a" >Listen to Episode 49: Politics, Facebook and Friendship</a></p><p><a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/tell-the-bartender/id595892497" >Download From iTunes Here</a></p><p>In this Episode:</p><p>Shawn joins The Bartender to talk about political discourse in the age of social media, &#8220;Racebook&#8221;, and how he handles situations when the police are involved.</p><p>Then Korde tells a story about a funny coincidence that happened when he first moved to New York. It&#8217;s kind of beautiful, you guys.</p><p>PLUS listener shout outs and The Bartender needs your help! Like the show? <a href="http://tellthebartender.com/tips/" >Tip</a> The Bartender! Or give it <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/tell-the-bartender/id595892497" >5 stars</a>!</p><p>Shawn is a VO artist, actor and baseball aficionado. Here he is rocking his team uniform:</p><p><a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/12/600166_10152684067825417_1151841894_n.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-672" src="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/12/600166_10152684067825417_1151841894_n.jpg?w=625" alt="600166_10152684067825417_1151841894_n"   /></a></p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/kordetuttle" >Korde Tuttle</a> is an incredible playwright, poet and all around awesome person. Here he is in what I&#8217;m told is a totally candid shot and I&#8217;m jealous:<a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/12/10518620_10202993305579214_6522821483810202941_o.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-673" src="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/12/10518620_10202993305579214_6522821483810202941_o.jpg?w=625&#038;h=418" alt="10518620_10202993305579214_6522821483810202941_o" width="625" height="418" /></a></p><p>Music Credits:</p><p>“Setting Sun” by Chris Powers</p><p>&#8220;Blue Lines&#8221; by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/artist/massive-attack/id526404" >Massive Attack</a></p><p>&#8220;The Impossible&#8221; by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/all-lost/id145627255" >Monster Movie</a></p><p>&#8220;Forest&#8221; by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/ca/album/glee-original-version-bonus/id651499178" >Bran Van 3000</a></p><p>&#8220;Fairytale of New York&#8221; by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/fairytale-new-york-single/id579375251" >The Pogues</a></p><p>“Bottled in Cork” by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/artist/ted-leo-and-the-pharmacists/id216650487" >Ted Leo &amp; The Pharmacists</a></p><p> <a rel="nofollow" href="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/gocomments/tellthebartender.wordpress.com/669/"><img alt="" border="0" src="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/comments/tellthebartender.wordpress.com/669/" /></a> <img alt="" border="0" src="http://pixel.wp.com/b.gif?host=tellthebartender.com&#038;blog=43650175&#038;%23038;post=669&#038;%23038;subd=tellthebartender&#038;%23038;ref=&#038;%23038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /></p><p class="syndicated-attribution"><br><a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2014/12/17/episode-49-politics-facebook-and-friendship/"><b>Source: Tell The Bartender</b></a><br> <a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2014/12/17/episode-49-politics-facebook-and-friendship/">http://tellthebartender.com/2014/12/17/episode-49-politics-facebook-and-friendship/</a></p>]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/12/17/tell-the-bartender-episode-49-politics-facebook-and-friendship/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> <enclosure url="http://traffic.libsyn.com/tellthebartender/NY1_-_12_17_14_2.48_PM.m4a" length="62583624" type="audio/mpeg" /> </item> <item><title>Struggle Bus Episode 6: Double Decker Struggle Buses, the Perfect Word to Describe Your Sexuality to Everyone (Does Not Exist), and (More) Clarifications on Catcalling</title><link>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/12/08/struggle-bus-episode-6-double-decker-struggle-buses-the-perfect-word-to-describe-your-sexuality-to-everyone-does-not-exist-and-more-clarifications-on-catcalling/</link> <comments>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/12/08/struggle-bus-episode-6-double-decker-struggle-buses-the-perfect-word-to-describe-your-sexuality-to-everyone-does-not-exist-and-more-clarifications-on-catcalling/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Mon, 08 Dec 2014 16:24:55 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator><![CDATA[tellthebartender]]></dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Podcast]]></category> <category><![CDATA[the struggle bus]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/?p=25</guid> <description><![CDATA[Listen To Episode 6 Subscribe On iTunes In this episode Kate and Sally thank listeners for writing and tweeting amazing things and for reviewing the podcast in iTunes and giving it 5 stars (hint). Kate shares her recent trip on the struggle bus and Sally vents about white people performing allyship. They then discuss a listener&#8217;s dilemma [&#8230;]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://pixel.wp.com/b.gif?host=strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com&#38;blog=71968296&#38;post=25&#38;subd=strugglebuspodcast&#38;ref=&#38;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /> <br />(<a href="http://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/2014/12/08/episode-6-double-decker-struggle-buses-the-perfect-word-to-describe-your-sexuality-to-everyone-does-not-exist-and-more-clarifications-on-catcalling/">via <a href="http://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com">The Struggle Bus</a></a>)</br>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://traffic.libsyn.com/strugglebus/SBSallyFinal2_-_12_8_14_11.16_AM.m4a">Listen To Episode 6</a></p><p><a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-struggle-bus/id904012068?mt=2" >Subscribe On iTunes</a></p><p>In this episode Kate and Sally thank listeners for writing and tweeting amazing things and for reviewing the podcast in iTunes and giving it 5 stars (hint). Kate shares her recent trip on the struggle bus and Sally vents about white people performing allyship. They then discuss a listener&#8217;s dilemma about finding the perfect word to describe her non-normative sexuality. Finally Kate and Sally address a listener&#8217;s question about when it&#8217;s okay for a man to approach a woman on the street to compliment her appearance. Spoiler alert: Somewhere between never and never ever.</p><p>Have a question? Tweet at <a href="https://twitter.com/spkheller" >Kate</a> and <a href="https://twitter.com/sallyt" >Sally</a>!</p><p>Theme song by <a href="http://martyscanlon.com/" >Marty Scanlon</a>!</p><p> <a rel="nofollow" href="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/gocomments/strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/25/"><img alt="" border="0" src="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/comments/strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/25/" /></a> <img alt="" border="0" src="http://pixel.wp.com/b.gif?host=strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com&#038;blog=71968296&#038;%23038;post=25&#038;%23038;subd=strugglebuspodcast&#038;%23038;ref=&#038;%23038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /></p><p class="syndicated-attribution"><br><a href="http://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/2014/12/08/episode-6-double-decker-struggle-buses-the-perfect-word-to-describe-your-sexuality-to-everyone-does-not-exist-and-more-clarifications-on-catcalling/"><b>Source: The Struggle Bus</b></a><br> <a href="http://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/2014/12/08/episode-6-double-decker-struggle-buses-the-perfect-word-to-describe-your-sexuality-to-everyone-does-not-exist-and-more-clarifications-on-catcalling/">http://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/2014/12/08/episode-6-double-decker-struggle-buses-the-perfect-word-to-describe-your-sexuality-to-everyone-does-not-exist-and-more-clarifications-on-catcalling/</a></p>]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/12/08/struggle-bus-episode-6-double-decker-struggle-buses-the-perfect-word-to-describe-your-sexuality-to-everyone-does-not-exist-and-more-clarifications-on-catcalling/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> <enclosure url="http://traffic.libsyn.com/strugglebus/SBSallyFinal2_-_12_8_14_11.16_AM.m4a" length="64702658" type="audio/mpeg" /> </item> <item><title>Tell the Bartender Episode 48: The True Meaning of Thanksgiving, Revealed</title><link>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/11/25/tell-the-bartender-episode-48-the-true-meaning-of-thanksgiving-revealed/</link> <comments>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/11/25/tell-the-bartender-episode-48-the-true-meaning-of-thanksgiving-revealed/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Tue, 25 Nov 2014 20:54:38 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator><![CDATA[tellthebartender]]></dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Podcast]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Tell the Bartender]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://tellthebartender.com/?p=663</guid> <description><![CDATA[Listen to Episode 48: The True Meaning of Thanksgiving, Revealed Download From iTunes Here In this Episode: The Bartender tries to find the true meaning of Thanksgiving. She spoke to her 3 1/2 year old nephew Christian, a friend&#8217;s 4 1/2 year old daughter Noa, and her friend Simona. They all had some incredible insight. Then Alex tells the story [&#8230;]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://pixel.wp.com/b.gif?host=tellthebartender.com&#38;blog=43650175&#38;post=663&#38;subd=tellthebartender&#38;ref=&#38;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /> <br />(<a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2014/11/25/episode-48-the-true-meaning-of-thanksgiving-revealed/">via <a href="http://tellthebartender.com">Tell The Bartender</a></a>)</br>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://traffic.libsyn.com/tellthebartender/Tday2_-_11_25_14_3.22_PM.m4a" >Listen to Episode 48: The True Meaning of Thanksgiving, Revealed</a></p><p><a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/tell-the-bartender/id595892497" >Download From iTunes Here</a></p><p>In this Episode:</p><p>The Bartender tries to find the true meaning of Thanksgiving. She spoke to her 3 1/2 year old nephew Christian, a friend&#8217;s 4 1/2 year old daughter Noa, and her friend Simona. They all had some incredible insight. Then Alex tells the story about one particularly interesting Thanksgiving with his family, and manages to sum up the true meaning of this holiday. PLUS listener shout outs and a new episode of The Bartender&#8217;s advice show with Sally Tamarkin, &#8220;<a href="http://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/2014/11/21/episode-5-awful-people-from-your-past-struggle-buddies-and-wanderlust-on-a-budget/" >The Struggle Bus</a>&#8220;, is up!</p><p><span style="color:#444444;font-family:'Open Sans', Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:14px;line-height:24px;">Like the show? </span><a style="margin:0;padding:0;border:0;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;outline:none;color:#9f9f9f;font-family:'Open Sans', Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;line-height:24px;" href="http://tellthebartender.com/tips/" >Tip</a><span style="color:#444444;font-family:'Open Sans', Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:14px;line-height:24px;"> The Bartender! Or give it </span><a style="margin:0;padding:0;border:0;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;outline:none;color:#9f9f9f;font-family:'Open Sans', Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;line-height:24px;" href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/tell-the-bartender/id595892497" >5 stars</a><span style="color:#444444;font-family:'Open Sans', Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:14px;line-height:24px;">!</span></p><p>Alex Kveton is a playwright, musician and awesome person. Here he is rocking a Guns N&#8217; Roses shirt:</p><p><a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/11/10535763_10103176220440579_6305630469767497556_o.jpg"><img class="aligncenter wp-image-665 size-medium" src="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/11/10535763_10103176220440579_6305630469767497556_o.jpg?w=200&#038;h=300" alt="10535763_10103176220440579_6305630469767497556_o" width="200" height="300" /></a></p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Many thanks to Katharine&#8217;s <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MZjin9QyhTk" >nephew</a>, <a href="http://ankerline.com/" >Corey</a>&#8216;s daughter Noa and Simona!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Music Credits:</p><p>“Setting Sun” by Chris Powers</p><p>&#8220;Night and Day&#8221; by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/pure-ella/id1526360" >Ella Fitzgerald</a></p><p>“Bottled in Cork” by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/artist/ted-leo-and-the-pharmacists/id216650487" >Ted Leo &amp; The Pharmacists</a></p><p> <a rel="nofollow" href="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/gocomments/tellthebartender.wordpress.com/663/"><img alt="" border="0" src="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/comments/tellthebartender.wordpress.com/663/" /></a> <img alt="" border="0" src="http://pixel.wp.com/b.gif?host=tellthebartender.com&#038;blog=43650175&#038;%23038;post=663&#038;%23038;subd=tellthebartender&#038;%23038;ref=&#038;%23038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /></p><p class="syndicated-attribution"><br><a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2014/11/25/episode-48-the-true-meaning-of-thanksgiving-revealed/"><b>Source: Tell The Bartender</b></a><br> <a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2014/11/25/episode-48-the-true-meaning-of-thanksgiving-revealed/">http://tellthebartender.com/2014/11/25/episode-48-the-true-meaning-of-thanksgiving-revealed/</a></p>]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/11/25/tell-the-bartender-episode-48-the-true-meaning-of-thanksgiving-revealed/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> <enclosure url="http://traffic.libsyn.com/tellthebartender/Tday2_-_11_25_14_3.22_PM.m4a" length="60790002" type="audio/mpeg" /> </item> <item><title>Struggle Bus Episode 5: Awful People from Your Past, Struggle Buddies, and Wanderlust on a Budget</title><link>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/11/21/struggle-bus-episode-5-awful-people-from-your-past-struggle-buddies-and-wanderlust-on-a-budget/</link> <comments>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/11/21/struggle-bus-episode-5-awful-people-from-your-past-struggle-buddies-and-wanderlust-on-a-budget/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2014 15:22:34 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator><![CDATA[tellthebartender]]></dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Podcast]]></category> <category><![CDATA[hp]]></category> <category><![CDATA[struggle bus]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/?p=22</guid> <description><![CDATA[Listen To Episode 5 Subscribe On iTunes In this episode Kate and Sally respond to a listener’s question about what to do when an awful person from her past is internet-famous for being a great guy. <br />(<a href="http://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/2014/11/21/episode-5-awful-people-from-your-past-struggle-buddies-and-wanderlust-on-a-budget/">via <a href="http://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com">The Struggle Bus</a></a>)</br>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://traffic.libsyn.com/strugglebus/SB5_-_11_21_14_10.07_AM.m4a" >Listen To Episode 5</a></p><p><a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-struggle-bus/id904012068?mt=2" >Subscribe On iTunes</a></p><p>In this episode Kate and Sally respond to a listener’s question about what to do when an awful person from her past is internet-famous for being a great guy. Plus: Don&#8217;t ride the struggle bus alone! Use #strugglepodbuds to find other listeners who want a struggle buddy. And finally, how to deal with an overwhelming desire to travel and an underwhelming amount of money with which to do it. BONUS: Kate tells us all about how she recently shamed a street harasser…with an inspired, tear-jerking performance.</p><p>Have a question? Tweet at <a href="https://twitter.com/spkheller" >Kate</a> and <a href="https://twitter.com/sallyt" >Sally</a>!</p><p>Theme song by <a href="http://martyscanlon.com/" >Marty Scanlon</a> and song of the week by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/artist/eytan-and-the-embassy/id490402046" >Eytan and The Embassy</a>! Video here:</p><p><span class='embed-youtube' style='text-align:center; display: block;'><iframe class='youtube-player' type='text/html' width='560' height='315' src='http://www.youtube.com/embed/iMwyun2KUI8?version=3&#038;rel=0&#038;%23038;fs=1&#038;%23038;showsearch=0&#038;%23038;showinfo=1&#038;%23038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;%23038;wmode=transparent' frameborder='0' allowfullscreen='true'></iframe></span></p><p>&nbsp;</p><p> <a rel="nofollow" href="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/gocomments/strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/22/"><img alt="" border="0" src="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/comments/strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/22/" /></a> <img alt="" border="0" src="http://pixel.wp.com/b.gif?host=strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com&#038;blog=71968296&#038;%23038;post=22&#038;%23038;subd=strugglebuspodcast&#038;%23038;ref=&#038;%23038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /></p><p class="syndicated-attribution"><br><a href="http://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/2014/11/21/episode-5-awful-people-from-your-past-struggle-buddies-and-wanderlust-on-a-budget/"><b>Source: The Struggle Bus</b></a><br> <a href="http://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/2014/11/21/episode-5-awful-people-from-your-past-struggle-buddies-and-wanderlust-on-a-budget/">http://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/2014/11/21/episode-5-awful-people-from-your-past-struggle-buddies-and-wanderlust-on-a-budget/</a></p>]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/11/21/struggle-bus-episode-5-awful-people-from-your-past-struggle-buddies-and-wanderlust-on-a-budget/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> <enclosure url="http://traffic.libsyn.com/strugglebus/SB5_-_11_21_14_10.07_AM.m4a" length="57660179" type="audio/mpeg" /> </item> <item><title>Tell the Bartender Episode 47: LIVE with Myka Fox and Keisha Zollar!</title><link>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/11/11/episode-47-live-with-myka-fox-and-keisha-zollar/</link> <comments>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/11/11/episode-47-live-with-myka-fox-and-keisha-zollar/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Wed, 12 Nov 2014 03:22:17 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator><![CDATA[tellthebartender]]></dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Podcast]]></category> <category><![CDATA[bartending]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Chemda]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Craigslist ad or casting notice]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Katharine Heller]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Keisha Zollar]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Myka Fox]]></category> <category><![CDATA[New York Comedy Festival]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Stories]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Ted Leo and the Pharmacists]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Tell the Bartender]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://tellthebartender.com/?p=651</guid> <description><![CDATA[Listen to Episode 47: LIVE with Myka Fox and Keisha Zollar! Download From iTunes Here In this Episode: The Bartender is joined by Myka Fox and Keisha Zollar for another wonderful live show. PLUS listener shout outs, and we play Craigslist Ad or Casting Notice! Recorded at UCB East, NY, NY as part of the New York Comedy Festival. Like the [&#8230;]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://pixel.wp.com/b.gif?host=tellthebartender.com&#38;blog=43650175&#38;post=651&#38;subd=tellthebartender&#38;ref=&#38;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /> <br />(<a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2014/11/12/episode-47-live-with-myka-fox-and-keisha-zollar/">via <a href="http://tellthebartender.com">Tell The Bartender</a></a>)</br>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://traffic.libsyn.com/tellthebartender/Showfinal2.m4a" >Listen to Episode 47: LIVE with Myka Fox and Keisha Zollar!</a></p><p><a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/tell-the-bartender/id595892497" >Download From iTunes Here</a></p><p>In this Episode:</p><p>The Bartender is joined by Myka Fox and Keisha Zollar for another wonderful live show. PLUS listener shout outs, and we play Craigslist Ad or Casting Notice! Recorded at UCB East, NY, NY as part of the New York Comedy Festival. Like the show? <a href="http://tellthebartender.com/tips/" >Tip</a> The Bartender! Or give it <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/tell-the-bartender/id595892497" >5 stars</a>!</p><p>Myka Fox is a comedian, writer, storyteller, <a href="http://www.keithandthegirl.com/guest/91/myka-fox" >podcaster</a>, and one of my favorite people on <a href="https://twitter.com/mykafox" >Twitter</a>.</p><p><a href="http://www.keishazollar.com/" >Keisha Zollar</a> is an actor, comedian, and an all around awesome person. She is working on a documentary called &#8220;<a href="http://thepit-nyc.com/event/an-uncomfortable-conversation-about-race/" >An Uncomfortable Conversation About Race</a>&#8221; and will be <a href="http://thepit-nyc.com/event/an-uncomfortable-conversation-about-race/" >hosting a panel discussion on December 6th</a>! Follow her on <a href="https://twitter.com/keishaz" >Twitter</a> as well.</p><p>Pics from the show!</p><p><a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/11/1507775_1596680057222682_2082606087283914442_n.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-654" src="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/11/1507775_1596680057222682_2082606087283914442_n.jpg?w=625" alt="1507775_1596680057222682_2082606087283914442_n"   /></a></p><p><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-657" src="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/11/10306633_1596680093889345_5366256681441940336_n.jpg?w=625&#038;h=438" alt="10306633_1596680093889345_5366256681441940336_n" width="625" height="438" /></p><p><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-659" src="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/11/10584049_1596680090556012_8796626104530820291_n.jpg?w=625&#038;h=486" alt="10584049_1596680090556012_8796626104530820291_n"   /></p><p><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-656" src="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/11/10247211_1596680160556005_7160306476188976605_n-2.png?w=625&#038;h=479" alt="10247211_1596680160556005_7160306476188976605_n (2)" width="625" height="479" /> <a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/11/1511161_1596680080556013_6591877455258839465_n-1.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-655" src="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/11/1511161_1596680080556013_6591877455258839465_n-1.jpg?w=625&#038;h=507" alt="1511161_1596680080556013_6591877455258839465_n (1)"   /></a> <a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/11/10247211_1596680160556005_7160306476188976605_n-2.png"><br /> </a> <a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/11/10306633_1596680093889345_5366256681441940336_n.jpg"><br /> </a> <a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/11/10419579_1596680053889349_2951310645130189175_n.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-658" src="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/11/10419579_1596680053889349_2951310645130189175_n.jpg?w=625&#038;h=634" alt="10419579_1596680053889349_2951310645130189175_n"   /></a> <a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/11/10584049_1596680090556012_8796626104530820291_n.jpg"><br /> </a> <a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/11/10806264_1596680047222683_4807499670808694197_n.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-660" src="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/11/10806264_1596680047222683_4807499670808694197_n.jpg?w=625&#038;h=395" alt="10806264_1596680047222683_4807499670808694197_n"   /></a></p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Music Credits:</p><p>“Setting Sun” by Chris Powers</p><p>“Bottled in Cork” by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/artist/ted-leo-and-the-pharmacists/id216650487" >Ted Leo &amp; The Pharmacists</a></p><p> <a rel="nofollow" href="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/gocomments/tellthebartender.wordpress.com/651/"><img alt="" border="0" src="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/comments/tellthebartender.wordpress.com/651/" /></a> <img alt="" border="0" src="http://pixel.wp.com/b.gif?host=tellthebartender.com&#038;blog=43650175&#038;%23038;post=651&#038;%23038;subd=tellthebartender&#038;%23038;ref=&#038;%23038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /></p><p class="syndicated-attribution"><br><a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2014/11/12/episode-47-live-with-myka-fox-and-keisha-zollar/"><b>Source: Tell The Bartender</b></a><br> <a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2014/11/12/episode-47-live-with-myka-fox-and-keisha-zollar/">http://tellthebartender.com/2014/11/12/episode-47-live-with-myka-fox-and-keisha-zollar/</a></p>]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/11/11/episode-47-live-with-myka-fox-and-keisha-zollar/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> <enclosure url="http://traffic.libsyn.com/tellthebartender/Showfinal2.m4a" length="66777164" type="audio/mpeg" /> </item> <item><title>Struggle Bus Episode 4: Emotional Vampires, Misanthropy, Getting Yourself the Hell to Therapy</title><link>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/11/05/struggle-bus-episode-4-emotional-vampires-misanthropy-getting-yourself-the-hell-to-therapy/</link> <comments>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/11/05/struggle-bus-episode-4-emotional-vampires-misanthropy-getting-yourself-the-hell-to-therapy/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Wed, 05 Nov 2014 15:24:06 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator><![CDATA[tellthebartender]]></dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Podcast]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/?p=14</guid> <description><![CDATA[Listen To Episode 4 Subscribe On iTunes In this episode Kate and Sally discuss &#8220;emotional vampires,&#8221; answer listener questions about how to approach someone you like, and how to not hate the world. PLUS Sally recommends a song to get you through the day. Also, news about an upcoming live show! Have a question? Tweet at Kate [&#8230;]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://pixel.wp.com/b.gif?host=strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com&#38;blog=71968296&#38;post=14&#38;subd=strugglebuspodcast&#38;ref=&#38;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /> <br />(<a href="http://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/2014/11/05/episode-4-emotional-vampires-misanthropy-getting-yourself-the-hell-to-therapy/">via <a href="http://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com">The Struggle Bus</a></a>)</br>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://traffic.libsyn.com/strugglebus/SB5.m4a" >Listen To Episode 4</a></p><p><a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-struggle-bus/id904012068?mt=2" >Subscribe On iTunes</a></p><p>In this episode Kate and Sally discuss &#8220;emotional vampires,&#8221; answer listener questions about how to approach someone you like, and how to not hate the world. PLUS Sally recommends a song to get you through the day. Also, news about an upcoming live show!</p><p>Have a question? Tweet at <a href="https://twitter.com/spkheller" >Kate</a> and <a href="https://twitter.com/sallyt" >Sally</a>!</p><div>And as per our conversation, see Sally&#8217;s reunion with Janeane Garofalo here:</div><div></div><div><span class='embed-youtube' style='text-align:center; display: block;'><iframe class='youtube-player' type='text/html' width='560' height='315' src='http://www.youtube.com/embed/wYvvH-67G_k?version=3&#038;rel=0&#038;%23038;fs=1&#038;%23038;showsearch=0&#038;%23038;showinfo=1&#038;%23038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;%23038;wmode=transparent' frameborder='0' allowfullscreen='true'></iframe></span></div><div>Music Credits:Theme Song by <a href="http://martyscanlon.com/" >Marty Scanlon</a></p><p>“Laid” by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/artist/james/id130451" >James</a></p></div><p> <a rel="nofollow" href="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/gocomments/strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/14/"><img alt="" border="0" src="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/comments/strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/14/" /></a> <img alt="" border="0" src="http://pixel.wp.com/b.gif?host=strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com&#038;blog=71968296&#038;%23038;post=14&#038;%23038;subd=strugglebuspodcast&#038;%23038;ref=&#038;%23038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /></p><p class="syndicated-attribution"><br><a href="http://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/2014/11/05/episode-4-emotional-vampires-misanthropy-getting-yourself-the-hell-to-therapy/"><b>Source: The Struggle Bus</b></a><br> <a href="http://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/2014/11/05/episode-4-emotional-vampires-misanthropy-getting-yourself-the-hell-to-therapy/">http://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/2014/11/05/episode-4-emotional-vampires-misanthropy-getting-yourself-the-hell-to-therapy/</a></p>]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/11/05/struggle-bus-episode-4-emotional-vampires-misanthropy-getting-yourself-the-hell-to-therapy/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> <enclosure url="http://traffic.libsyn.com/strugglebus/SB5.m4a" length="59529259" type="audio/mpeg" /> </item> <item><title>Tell the Bartender Episode 46: Halloween Spooktacular!</title><link>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/10/30/episode-46-halloween-spooktacular/</link> <comments>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/10/30/episode-46-halloween-spooktacular/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Thu, 30 Oct 2014 16:04:23 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator><![CDATA[tellthebartender]]></dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Around Brooklyn]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Podcast]]></category> <category><![CDATA[David Lawson]]></category> <category><![CDATA[halloween]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Katharine Heller]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Lauren Hennessy]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Stories]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Ted Leo and the Pharmacists]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Tell the Bartender]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://tellthebartender.com/?p=643</guid> <description><![CDATA[Listen to Episode 46: Halloween Spooktacular! Download From iTunes Here In this Episode: David Lawson joins Katharine to tell the story about, well, the worst thing to happen while leading a &#8220;Ghost Tour&#8221; in a graveyard in Boston. And Lauren Hennessy is back to talk about a scary thing that happened while in a lighting booth for a [&#8230;]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://pixel.wp.com/b.gif?host=tellthebartender.com&#38;blog=43650175&#38;post=643&#38;subd=tellthebartender&#38;ref=&#38;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /> <br />(<a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2014/10/30/episode-46-halloween-spooktacular/">via <a href="http://tellthebartender.com">Tell The Bartender</a></a>)</br>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://traffic.libsyn.com/tellthebartender/Untitled_-_10_30_14_11.53_AM.m4a" >Listen to Episode 46: Halloween Spooktacular!</a></p><p><a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/tell-the-bartender/id595892497" >Download From iTunes Here</a></p><p>In this Episode:</p><p>David Lawson joins Katharine to tell the story about, well, the worst thing to happen while leading a &#8220;Ghost Tour&#8221; in a graveyard in Boston. And Lauren Hennessy is back to talk about a scary thing that happened while in a lighting booth for a show. PLUS listener shout outs, and tickets are available for the next <a href="http://east.ucbtheatre.com/performances/view/34964" >LIVE show</a> for the New York Comedy Festival on November 8th! Like what you hear? <a href="http://tellthebartender.com/tips/" >Tip</a> The Bartender! Or give it <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/tell-the-bartender/id595892497" >5 stars</a>!</p><p>About The Guests:</p><p><a href="http://www.dtlawson.com/dtlawson/David_Lawson.html" >David Lawson</a> is a writer, performer, and totally awesome person who also kills it on <a href="https://twitter.com/dtlawson" >Twitter</a>. He also hosts <a title="http://www.astoriabookshop.com/" href="http://www.astoriabookshop.com/">The Astoria Bookshop Storytelling Show</a> (the second Tuesday of each month at 7PM) and the podcast <a title="https://www.facebook.com/StipendPodcast" href="https://www.facebook.com/StipendPodcast">Stipend</a>. <a href="http://www.bostonherald.com/news_opinion/local_coverage/2007/08/shooting_common_sent_tourists_running_cover" >Here is the article</a> about his story.</p><p><a href="http://laurenhennessy.com/" >Lauren Hennessy</a> is an actor, podcast host, and an overall awesome person. Get his show “Bottoms Up With Hennessy” <a href="http://www.keithandthegirl.com/vip/bonus/series.php?sid=12" >here</a>!</p><p>Here is David Lawson, being awesome:</p><p><a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/10/10174832_10100188078171761_4358063280151857957_n.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-644" src="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/10/10174832_10100188078171761_4358063280151857957_n.jpg?w=625" alt="10174832_10100188078171761_4358063280151857957_n"   /></a></p><p>Lauren Hennessey, in this amazing short doc:</p><p><span class='embed-youtube' style='text-align:center; display: block;'><iframe class='youtube-player' type='text/html' width='560' height='315' src='http://www.youtube.com/embed/lX3yYkkEulY?version=3&#038;rel=0&#038;%23038;fs=1&#038;%23038;showsearch=0&#038;%23038;showinfo=1&#038;%23038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;%23038;wmode=transparent' frameborder='0' allowfullscreen='true'></iframe></span></p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Music Credits:</p><p>“Setting Sun” by Chris Powers</p><p>“The Killing Moon” by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/artist/echo-the-bunnymen/id829532" >Echo &amp; The Bunnymen</a></p><p>&#8220;Perhaps, Perhaps, Perhaps&#8221; by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/artist/cake/id472322" >Cake</a></p><p>&#8220;Under The Milky Way&#8221; by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/under-milky-way-best-church/id303159031" >The Church</a></p><p>&#8220;Never Knows Your Name&#8221; by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/tide/id127997253" >Tide</a></p><p>“Bottled in Cork” by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/artist/ted-leo-and-the-pharmacists/id216650487" >Ted Leo &amp; The Pharmacists</a></p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p> <a rel="nofollow" href="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/gocomments/tellthebartender.wordpress.com/643/"><img alt="" border="0" src="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/comments/tellthebartender.wordpress.com/643/" /></a> <img alt="" border="0" src="http://pixel.wp.com/b.gif?host=tellthebartender.com&#038;blog=43650175&#038;%23038;post=643&#038;%23038;subd=tellthebartender&#038;%23038;ref=&#038;%23038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /></p><p class="syndicated-attribution"><br><a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2014/10/30/episode-46-halloween-spooktacular/"><b>Source: Tell The Bartender</b></a><br> <a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2014/10/30/episode-46-halloween-spooktacular/">http://tellthebartender.com/2014/10/30/episode-46-halloween-spooktacular/</a></p>]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/10/30/episode-46-halloween-spooktacular/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> <enclosure url="http://traffic.libsyn.com/tellthebartender/Untitled_-_10_30_14_11.53_AM.m4a" length="75168324" type="audio/mpeg" /> </item> <item><title>Tell the Bartender Episode 45: This Time, It’s Personal</title><link>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/10/22/tell-the-bartender-episode-45-this-time-its-personal/</link> <comments>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/10/22/tell-the-bartender-episode-45-this-time-its-personal/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Wed, 22 Oct 2014 20:34:03 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator><![CDATA[tellthebartender]]></dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Podcast]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Katharine Heller]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Stories]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Tell the Bartender]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://tellthebartender.com/?p=635</guid> <description><![CDATA[Listen to Episode 45: This Time, It&#8217;s Personal Download From iTunes Here In this Episode: The Bartender is joined by herself because her computer somehow lost all of her yet-to-be-released interviews (and all of GarageBand!) so the very special Halloween episode will be up next week BUT Katharine didn&#8217;t want to leave you hanging. So, for the [&#8230;]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://pixel.wp.com/b.gif?host=tellthebartender.com&#38;blog=43650175&#38;post=635&#38;subd=tellthebartender&#38;ref=&#38;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /> <br />(<a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2014/10/22/episode-45-this-time-its-personal/">via <a href="http://tellthebartender.com">Tell The Bartender</a></a>)</br>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://traffic.libsyn.com/tellthebartender/showfinal3_-_10_22_14_4.20_PM.m4a" >Listen to Episode 45: This Time, It&#8217;s Personal</a></p><p><a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/tell-the-bartender/id595892497" >Download From iTunes Here</a></p><p>In this Episode:</p><p>The Bartender is joined by herself because her computer somehow lost all of her yet-to-be-released interviews (and all of GarageBand!) so the very special Halloween episode will be up next week BUT Katharine didn&#8217;t want to leave you hanging. So, for the first time, she is releasing audio from the very personal (and hilarious!) <a href="http://www.mydadscrazier.com/" >one woman show</a> she did 4 years ago about her (difficult relationship with her) dad. She is very nervous and needs a hug. Enjoy! Like the show? <a href="http://tellthebartender.com/tips/" >Tip</a> The Bartender! Or give it <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/tell-the-bartender/id595892497" >5 stars</a>!</p><p>Pictures from the show by Sarah Lasley</p><p><a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/10/40555_139118116125755_7561862_n.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-637" src="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/10/40555_139118116125755_7561862_n.jpg?w=625" alt="40555_139118116125755_7561862_n"   /></a> <a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/10/40555_139118122792421_2470220_n.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-638" src="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/10/40555_139118122792421_2470220_n.jpg?w=625&#038;h=485" alt="40555_139118122792421_2470220_n"   /></a><a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/10/40815_139118099459090_7420778_n.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-639" src="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/10/40815_139118099459090_7420778_n.jpg?w=625" alt="40815_139118099459090_7420778_n"   /></a></p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Music Credits:</p><p>“Setting Sun” by Chris Powers</p><p>&#8220;Hello Image&#8221; by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/artist/gold-streets/id261179228" >Gold Streets</a></p><p>“Bottled in Cork” by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/artist/ted-leo-and-the-pharmacists/id216650487" >Ted Leo &amp; The Pharmacists</a></p><p>&nbsp;</p><p> <a rel="nofollow" href="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/gocomments/tellthebartender.wordpress.com/635/"><img alt="" border="0" src="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/comments/tellthebartender.wordpress.com/635/" /></a> <img alt="" border="0" src="http://pixel.wp.com/b.gif?host=tellthebartender.com&#038;blog=43650175&#038;%23038;post=635&#038;%23038;subd=tellthebartender&#038;%23038;ref=&#038;%23038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /></p><p class="syndicated-attribution"><br><a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2014/10/22/episode-45-this-time-its-personal/"><b>Source: Tell The Bartender</b></a><br> <a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2014/10/22/episode-45-this-time-its-personal/">http://tellthebartender.com/2014/10/22/episode-45-this-time-its-personal/</a></p>]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/10/22/tell-the-bartender-episode-45-this-time-its-personal/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> <enclosure url="http://traffic.libsyn.com/tellthebartender/showfinal3_-_10_22_14_4.20_PM.m4a" length="0" type="audio/mpeg" /> </item> <item><title>Tell the Bartender Episode 44: LIVE with Janeane Garofalo, Mara Wilson and Jeffrey Cranor!</title><link>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/10/10/tell-the-bartender-episode-44-live-with-janeane-garofalo-mara-wilson-and-jeffrey-cranor/</link> <comments>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/10/10/tell-the-bartender-episode-44-live-with-janeane-garofalo-mara-wilson-and-jeffrey-cranor/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Fri, 10 Oct 2014 16:00:54 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator><![CDATA[tellthebartender]]></dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Around Brooklyn]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Podcast]]></category> <category><![CDATA[bartending]]></category> <category><![CDATA[chris powers]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Craigslist ad or casting notice]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Danny Hatch]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Janeane Garofalo]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Jeffrey Cranor]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Jon Quinn]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Jordan McDonough]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Katharine Heller]]></category> <category><![CDATA[mara wilson]]></category> <category><![CDATA[NY ComicCon]]></category> <category><![CDATA[sally tamarkin]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Stories]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Super Week]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Ted Leo and the Pharmacists]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Tell the Bartender]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Thor]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category> <category><![CDATA[welcome to night vale]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://tellthebartender.com/?p=616</guid> <description><![CDATA[Listen to Episode 44: LIVE with Janeane Garofalo, Mara Wilson and Jeffrey Cranor! Download From iTunes Here In this Episode: The Bartender is joined by Janeane Garofalo, Mara Wilson and Jeffrey Cranor for another wonderful live show. PLUS listener shout outs, and we play Craigslist Ad or Casting Notice with Jordan McDonough! Recorded at Union Hall in [&#8230;]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://pixel.wp.com/b.gif?host=tellthebartender.com&#38;blog=43650175&#38;post=616&#38;subd=tellthebartender&#38;ref=&#38;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /> <br />(<a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2014/10/08/episode-44-live-with-janeane-garofalo-mara-wilson-and-jeffrey-cranor/">via <a href="http://tellthebartender.com">Tell The Bartender</a></a>)</br>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://traffic.libsyn.com/tellthebartender/Live.m4a" >Listen to Episode 44: LIVE with Janeane Garofalo, Mara Wilson and Jeffrey Cranor!</a></p><p><a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/tell-the-bartender/id595892497" >Download From iTunes Here</a></p><p>In this Episode:</p><p>The Bartender is joined by <a href="http://www.janeanegarofalo.com/" >Janeane Garofalo</a>, <a href="http://marawilsonwritesstuff.com/" >Mara Wilson</a> and <a href="http://commonplacebooks.com/" >Jeffrey Cranor</a> for another wonderful live show. PLUS listener shout outs, and we play Craigslist Ad or Casting Notice with Jordan McDonough! Recorded at Union Hall in Brooklyn, NY as part of <a href="http://www.newyorkcomiccon.com/" >New York ComicCon</a>&#8216;s <a href="http://www.newyorksuperweek.com/" >Super Week</a>. Like the show? <a href="http://tellthebartender.com/tips/" >Tip</a> The Bartender! Or give it <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/tell-the-bartender/id595892497" >5 stars</a>!</p><p>Watch a clip here:</p><p><span class='embed-youtube' style='text-align:center; display: block;'><iframe class='youtube-player' type='text/html' width='560' height='315' src='http://www.youtube.com/embed/wYvvH-67G_k?version=3&#038;rel=0&#038;%23038;fs=1&#038;%23038;showsearch=0&#038;%23038;showinfo=1&#038;%23038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;%23038;wmode=transparent' frameborder='0' allowfullscreen='true'></iframe></span></p><p>Pics here by <a href="http://heyscola.tumblr.com/" >Tom Scola</a>:</p><p><a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/10/10468044_1581004022123619_5938631293239716676_o-1.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-620" src="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/10/10468044_1581004022123619_5938631293239716676_o-1.jpg?w=625&#038;h=468" alt="10468044_1581004022123619_5938631293239716676_o (1)" width="625" height="468" /></a></p><p><a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/10/10533282_1581004035456951_1606041119768403215_o.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-621" src="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/10/10533282_1581004035456951_1606041119768403215_o.jpg?w=625&#038;h=468" alt="10533282_1581004035456951_1606041119768403215_o" width="625" height="468" /></a></p><p><a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/10/10658626_1581003728790315_1074222683503683058_o.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-624" src="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/10/10658626_1581003728790315_1074222683503683058_o.jpg?w=625&#038;h=468" alt="10658626_1581003728790315_1074222683503683058_o" width="625" height="468" /></a></p><p><a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/10/10658656_1581003428790345_8638669806592740266_o.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-625" src="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/10/10658656_1581003428790345_8638669806592740266_o.jpg?w=625&#038;h=468" alt="10658656_1581003428790345_8638669806592740266_o" width="625" height="468" /></a></p><p><a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/10/1781626_1581003228790365_9019861737005884117_o.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-619" src="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/10/1781626_1581003228790365_9019861737005884117_o.jpg?w=625&#038;h=468" alt="1781626_1581003228790365_9019861737005884117_o" width="625" height="468" /></a><a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/10/10533294_1581004318790256_2866956781905478095_o.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-622" src="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/10/10533294_1581004318790256_2866956781905478095_o.jpg?w=625&#038;h=468" alt="10533294_1581004318790256_2866956781905478095_o" width="625" height="468" /></a><a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/10/1606449_1581003535457001_8160881401568469986_o.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-617" src="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/10/1606449_1581003535457001_8160881401568469986_o.jpg?w=625&#038;h=468" alt="1606449_1581003535457001_8160881401568469986_o" width="625" height="468" /></a><a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/10/1614172_1581004845456870_4289524357105596689_o.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-618" src="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/10/1614172_1581004845456870_4289524357105596689_o.jpg?w=625&#038;h=468" alt="1614172_1581004845456870_4289524357105596689_o" width="625" height="468" /></a><a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/10/10679863_1581004178790270_21581464351049499_o.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-627" src="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/10/10679863_1581004178790270_21581464351049499_o.jpg?w=625&#038;h=468" alt="10679863_1581004178790270_21581464351049499_o" width="625" height="468" /></a><a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/10/10669354_1581003465457008_8191892939021760124_o.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-626" src="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/10/10669354_1581003465457008_8191892939021760124_o.jpg?w=625&#038;h=468" alt="10669354_1581003465457008_8191892939021760124_o" width="625" height="468" /></a><a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/10/10648316_1581004182123603_6536238600026995868_o-1.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-623" src="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/10/10648316_1581004182123603_6536238600026995868_o-1.jpg?w=625&#038;h=468" alt="10648316_1581004182123603_6536238600026995868_o (1)" width="625" height="468" /></a></p><p>Music Credits:</p><p>“Setting Sun” by Chris Powers</p><p>“Bottled in Cork” by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/artist/ted-leo-and-the-pharmacists/id216650487" >Ted Leo &amp; The Pharmacists</a></p><p> <a rel="nofollow" href="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/gocomments/tellthebartender.wordpress.com/616/"><img alt="" border="0" src="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/comments/tellthebartender.wordpress.com/616/" /></a> <img alt="" border="0" src="http://pixel.wp.com/b.gif?host=tellthebartender.com&#038;blog=43650175&#038;%23038;post=616&#038;%23038;subd=tellthebartender&#038;%23038;ref=&#038;%23038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /></p><p class="syndicated-attribution"><br><a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2014/10/08/episode-44-live-with-janeane-garofalo-mara-wilson-and-jeffrey-cranor/"><b>Source: Tell The Bartender</b></a><br> <a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2014/10/08/episode-44-live-with-janeane-garofalo-mara-wilson-and-jeffrey-cranor/">http://tellthebartender.com/2014/10/08/episode-44-live-with-janeane-garofalo-mara-wilson-and-jeffrey-cranor/</a></p>]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/10/10/tell-the-bartender-episode-44-live-with-janeane-garofalo-mara-wilson-and-jeffrey-cranor/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> <enclosure url="http://traffic.libsyn.com/tellthebartender/Live.m4a" length="31920741" type="audio/mpeg" /> </item> <item><title>Tell the Bartender Episode 43: There’s A First Time For Everything</title><link>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/10/01/episode-43-theres-a-first-time-for-everything/</link> <comments>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/10/01/episode-43-theres-a-first-time-for-everything/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Wed, 01 Oct 2014 22:25:43 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator><![CDATA[tellthebartender]]></dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Podcast]]></category> <category><![CDATA[bartending]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Katharine Heller]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Kevin Allison]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Meghan Turbitt]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Risk]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Stories]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Ted Leo and the Pharmacists]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Tell the Bartender]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://tellthebartender.com/?p=603</guid> <description><![CDATA[<a href="https://twitter.com/TheKevinAllison" >Kevin Allison</a> is an <a href="http://www.funnyordie.com/videos/4c0ef14d08/mind-match-by-the-state-from-greatest-comedy-sketches" >actor</a>, storyteller, and the host of the wonderful storytelling show <a href="http://risk-show.com/" >Risk</a>. (The very embarrassing story Katharine told on it recently is up <a href="http://risk-show.com/podcast/blown-away/" >here</a>!) You can hear more about his adventures on his infamous episode <a href="http://risk-show.com/podcast/kevin-goes-to-kink-camp-part-1/" >Kevin Goes to Kink Camp</a>. <br />(<a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2014/09/17/episode-43-theres-a-first-time-for-everything/">via <a href="http://tellthebartender.com">Tell The Bartender</a></a>)</br>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://traffic.libsyn.com/tellthebartender/FirstTimeForEverything3.m4a" >Listen to Episode 43: There&#8217;s a First Time For Everything</a></p><p><a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/tell-the-bartender/id595892497" >Download From iTunes Here</a></p><p>In this episode:</p><p>Kevin Allison walks us through sexual awakenings in his life, and talks about his first time experimenting with BDSM, polyamory, why he is &#8220;The Skipper and not Gilligan&#8221;, and a class he teaches at Kink Camp.  Then Meghan Turbitt gets personal with The Bartender about the first time she had sex, and Katharine in turn shares a very intimate story with Meghan about her hymen.</p><p>PLUS listener shout outs, and news about the next LIVE show for New York ComicCon&#8217;s <a href="http://sw14.mapyourshow.com/6_0/sessions/session-details.cfm?ScheduleID=121" >Superweek</a> on October 5th at 4:00pm with Janeane Garofalo, Mara Wilson and Jeffrey Cranor! Tickets are available <a href="http://www.ticketfly.com/purchase/event/671799" >here</a>! Like the show? <a href="http://tellthebartender.com/tips/" >Tip</a> The Bartender! Or give it <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/tell-the-bartender/id595892497" >5 stars</a>!</p><p><a href="https://twitter.com/TheKevinAllison" >Kevin Allison</a> is an <a href="http://www.funnyordie.com/videos/4c0ef14d08/mind-match-by-the-state-from-greatest-comedy-sketches" >actor</a>, storyteller, and the host of the wonderful storytelling show <a href="http://risk-show.com/" >Risk</a>. (The very embarrassing story Katharine told on it recently is up <a href="http://risk-show.com/podcast/blown-away/" >here</a>!) You can hear more about his adventures on his infamous episode <a href="http://risk-show.com/podcast/kevin-goes-to-kink-camp-part-1/" >Kevin Goes to Kink Camp</a>. Here he is looking quite handsome:</p><p><a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/09/6bac6b5441e08f972b7f0c1f30b52166_400x400.jpeg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-606" src="http://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/09/6bac6b5441e08f972b7f0c1f30b52166_400x400.jpeg?w=300&#038;h=300" alt="6bac6b5441e08f972b7f0c1f30b52166_400x400" width="300" height="300" /></a></p><p><a href="http://meghanturbitt.tumblr.com/" >Meghan Turbitt</a> is an incredible <a href="http://meghanturbitt.storenvy.com/" >artist</a> and you should see all of her amazing work as soon as possible. Here is one of my favorite pieces:</p><p><a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/09/meghan.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-607" src="http://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/09/meghan.jpg?w=625" alt="meghan"   /></a></p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Music Credits:</p><p>“Setting Sun” by Chris Powers</p><p>&#8220;Honey In The Sun&#8221; by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/artist/camera-obscura/id17885376" >Camera Obscura</a></p><p>&#8220;Girls and Boys&#8221; by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/artist/blur/id528564" >Blur</a></p><p>&#8220;Perhaps, Perhaps, Perhaps&#8221; by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/fashion-nugget-deluxe-version/id270245904" >Cake</a></p><p>“Bottled in Cork” by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/artist/ted-leo-and-the-pharmacists/id216650487" >Ted Leo &amp; The Pharmacists</a></p><p> <a rel="nofollow" href="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/gocomments/tellthebartender.wordpress.com/603/"><img alt="" border="0" src="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/comments/tellthebartender.wordpress.com/603/" /></a> <img alt="" border="0" src="http://pixel.wp.com/b.gif?host=tellthebartender.com&#038;blog=43650175&#038;%23038;post=603&#038;%23038;subd=tellthebartender&#038;%23038;ref=&#038;%23038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /></p><p class="syndicated-attribution"><br><a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2014/09/17/episode-43-theres-a-first-time-for-everything/"><b>Source: Tell The Bartender</b></a><br> <a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2014/09/17/episode-43-theres-a-first-time-for-everything/">http://tellthebartender.com/2014/09/17/episode-43-theres-a-first-time-for-everything/</a></p>]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/10/01/episode-43-theres-a-first-time-for-everything/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> <enclosure url="http://traffic.libsyn.com/tellthebartender/FirstTimeForEverything3.m4a" length="25720236" type="audio/mpeg" /> </item> <item><title>The Struggle Bus: Episode 3</title><link>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/09/29/the-struggle-bus-episode-3/</link> <comments>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/09/29/the-struggle-bus-episode-3/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Tue, 30 Sep 2014 00:52:59 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator><![CDATA[tellthebartender]]></dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Podcast]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Katharine Heller]]></category> <category><![CDATA[marty scanlon]]></category> <category><![CDATA[sally tamarkin]]></category> <category><![CDATA[the struggle bus]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/?p=12</guid> <description><![CDATA[Listen To Episode 3 Subscribe On iTunes In this episode, Kate and Sally discuss siblings, horrible professors and getting out of unhealthy situations. Also, Kate tells an embarrassing story and Sally doles out some wisdom from RuPaul. Music Credit... <br />(<a href="http://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/2014/09/30/the-struggle-bus-episode-3/">via <a href="http://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com">The Struggle Bus</a></a>)</br>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://traffic.libsyn.com/strugglebus/Sbus3.m4a" >Listen To Episode 3</a></p><p><a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-struggle-bus/id904012068?mt=2" >Subscribe On iTunes</a></p><p>In this episode, Kate and Sally discuss siblings, horrible professors and getting out of unhealthy situations. Also, Kate tells an embarrassing story and Sally doles out some wisdom from RuPaul.</p><p>Music Credits:</p><p>Theme Song by <a href="http://martyscanlon.com/" >Marty Scanlon</a></p><p>“Firework” by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/artist/katy-perry/id64387566" >Katy Perry</a></p><p> <a rel="nofollow" href="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/gocomments/strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/12/"><img alt="" border="0" src="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/comments/strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/12/" /></a> <img alt="" border="0" src="http://pixel.wp.com/b.gif?host=strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com&#038;blog=71968296&#038;%23038;post=12&#038;%23038;subd=strugglebuspodcast&#038;%23038;ref=&#038;%23038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /></p><p class="syndicated-attribution"><br><a href="http://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/2014/09/30/the-struggle-bus-episode-3/"><b>Source: The Struggle Bus</b></a><br> <a href="http://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/2014/09/30/the-struggle-bus-episode-3/">http://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/2014/09/30/the-struggle-bus-episode-3/</a></p>]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/09/29/the-struggle-bus-episode-3/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> <enclosure url="http://traffic.libsyn.com/strugglebus/Sbus3.m4a" length="16653758" type="audio/mpeg" /> </item> <item><title>Tell the Bartender Episode 42: An Education</title><link>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/09/04/tell-the-bartender-episode-42-an-education/</link> <comments>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/09/04/tell-the-bartender-episode-42-an-education/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Thu, 04 Sep 2014 13:32:40 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator><![CDATA[tellthebartender]]></dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Podcast]]></category> <category><![CDATA[comicCon]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Katharine Heller]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Mychal Denzel Smith]]></category> <category><![CDATA[new york]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Stories]]></category> <category><![CDATA[superweek]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Ted Leo and the Pharmacists]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Tell the Bartender]]></category> <category><![CDATA[The Nation]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://tellthebartender.com/?p=598</guid> <description><![CDATA[Listen to Episode 42: An Education Download From iTunes Here In this episode: The incredibly talented Mychal Denzel Smith is a contributing writer at The Nation, freelances for other major publications, makes frequent appearances on television and is prodigious on Twitter. He also spent four years at a distinguished university but never graduated. This is a story about questioning [&#8230;]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://pixel.wp.com/b.gif?host=tellthebartender.com&#38;blog=43650175&#38;post=598&#38;subd=tellthebartender&#38;ref=&#38;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /> <br />(<a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2014/09/01/episode-42-an-education/">via <a href="http://tellthebartender.com">Tell The Bartender</a></a>)</br>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://traffic.libsyn.com/tellthebartender/MychalFinalEp1.m4a" >Listen to Episode 42: An Education</a></p><p><a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/tell-the-bartender/id595892497" >Download From iTunes Here</a></p><p>In this episode:</p><p>The incredibly talented Mychal Denzel Smith is a contributing writer at <em><a href="http://www.thenation.com/authors/mychal-denzel-smith" >The Nation</a>, </em>freelances for <a href="http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2013/apr/09/bradpaisley-llcoolj-duet-accidental-racist" >other</a> <a href="http://www.salon.com/2014/08/13/black_male_cools_fatal_limits_jordan_lebron_and_michael_browns_expendability/" >major</a> <a href="http://feministing.com/2013/05/17/on-doing-the-emotional-work-of-being-a-male-feminist/" >publications</a>, makes frequent appearances on <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xc2wDLOr2T0" >television</a> and is prodigious on <a href="https://twitter.com/mychalsmith" >Twitter</a>. He also spent four years at a distinguished university but never graduated. This is a story about questioning authority, why it’s so important to do so no matter what the consequences, and, like any great narrative, there is a boat explosion. Ok, he had nothing to do with the boat but he is responsible for some other big things.</p><p>PLUS news about the monthly advice show Katharine co-hosts called <a href="https://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/" >The Struggle Bus</a>, and tickets are available now for the next <a href="http://sw14.mapyourshow.com/6_0/sessions/session-details.cfm?ScheduleID=121" >Tell The Bartender LIVE</a> brought to you by New York ComicCon&#8217;s <a href="http://www.newyorksuperweek.com/" >Superweek</a>! Get them <a href="http://www.unionhallny.com/event/671799" >here</a>. Like the show? <a href="http://tellthebartender.com/tips/" >Tip</a> The Bartender! Or give it <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/tell-the-bartender/id595892497" >5 stars</a>!</p><p>Here is  Smith&#8217;s phenomenal cover story for the latest edition of The Nation: <a href="http://www.thenation.com/article/181404/how-trayvon-martins-death-launched-new-generation-black-activism" >How Trayvon Martin’s Death Launched a New Generation of Black Activism</a>.</p><p style="text-align:center;"><a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/09/20130811_mds-headshots_das_28.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-600" src="http://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/09/20130811_mds-headshots_das_28.jpg?w=199&#038;h=300" alt="20130811_MDS headshots_DAS_28" width="199" height="300" /></a><a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/09/url.jpg"><br /> </a><em>Mychal Denzel Smith in a tie, smiling, taking over the world. </em></p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Music Credits:</p><p>“Setting Sun” by Chris Powers</p><p>&#8220;La belle et le bad boy&#8221; by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/la-belle-et-le-bad-boy-single/id282623386" >MC Solaar</a></p><p>&#8220;Dare I Say&#8221; by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/discosis/id653726414" >Bran Van 3000</a></p><p>“Bottled in Cork” by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/artist/ted-leo-and-the-pharmacists/id216650487" >Ted Leo &amp; The Pharmacists</a></p><p> <a rel="nofollow" href="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/gocomments/tellthebartender.wordpress.com/598/"><img alt="" border="0" src="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/comments/tellthebartender.wordpress.com/598/" /></a> <img alt="" border="0" src="http://pixel.wp.com/b.gif?host=tellthebartender.com&#038;blog=43650175&#038;%23038;post=598&#038;%23038;subd=tellthebartender&#038;%23038;ref=&#038;%23038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /></p><p class="syndicated-attribution"><br><a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2014/09/01/episode-42-an-education/"><b>Source: Tell The Bartender</b></a><br> <a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2014/09/01/episode-42-an-education/">http://tellthebartender.com/2014/09/01/episode-42-an-education/</a></p>]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/09/04/tell-the-bartender-episode-42-an-education/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> <enclosure url="http://traffic.libsyn.com/tellthebartender/MychalFinalEp1.m4a" length="0" type="audio/mpeg" /> </item> <item><title>The Struggle Bus: Episode 2</title><link>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/08/28/the-struggle-bus-episode-2/</link> <comments>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/08/28/the-struggle-bus-episode-2/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Thu, 28 Aug 2014 15:08:11 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator><![CDATA[tellthebartender]]></dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Podcast]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Katharine Heller]]></category> <category><![CDATA[sally tamarkin]]></category> <category><![CDATA[the struggle bus]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/?p=9</guid> <description><![CDATA[Listen To Episode 2 Subscribe On iTunes In this episode Kate and Sally talk about some of their struggles this month, and answer a listener question about finances and friendship. Plus, what not to do when you see a table full of women at a restaurant. And a new theme song by Marty Scanlon! Music Credits: Theme [&#8230;]<img alt="" border="0" src="https://pixel.wp.com/b.gif?host=strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com&#38;blog=71968296&#38;post=9&#38;subd=strugglebuspodcast&#38;ref=&#38;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /> <br />(<a href="https://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/2014/08/28/the-struggle-bus-episode-2/">via <a href="https://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com">The Struggle Bus</a></a>)</br>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://traffic.libsyn.com/strugglebus/KandSFinal4.m4a" >Listen To Episode 2</a></p><p><a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-struggle-bus/id904012068?mt=2" >Subscribe On iTunes</a></p><p>In this episode Kate and Sally talk about some of their struggles this month, and answer a listener question about finances and friendship. Plus, what not to do when you see a table full of women at a restaurant. And a new theme song by Marty Scanlon!</p><p>Music Credits:</p><p>Theme Song by <a href="http://martyscanlon.com/" >Marty Scanlon</a></p><p>&#8220;I Love It&#8221; by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/i-love-it-feat.-charli-xcx/id576651449" >Icona Pop</a></p><p> <a rel="nofollow" href="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/gocomments/strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/9/"><img alt="" border="0" src="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/comments/strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/9/" /></a> <img alt="" border="0" src="https://pixel.wp.com/b.gif?host=strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com&#038;blog=71968296&#038;%23038;post=9&#038;%23038;subd=strugglebuspodcast&#038;%23038;ref=&#038;%23038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /></p><p class="syndicated-attribution"><br><a href="https://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/2014/08/28/the-struggle-bus-episode-2/"><b>Source: The Struggle Bus</b></a><br> <a href="https://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/2014/08/28/the-struggle-bus-episode-2/">https://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/2014/08/28/the-struggle-bus-episode-2/</a></p>]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/08/28/the-struggle-bus-episode-2/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> <enclosure url="http://traffic.libsyn.com/strugglebus/KandSFinal4.m4a" length="0" type="audio/mpeg" /> </item> <item><title>Tell the Bartender Episode 41: LIVE with Jamie Kilstein and Chris Gethard!</title><link>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/08/18/tell-the-bartender-episode-41-live-with-jamie-kilstein-and-chris-gethard/</link> <comments>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/08/18/tell-the-bartender-episode-41-live-with-jamie-kilstein-and-chris-gethard/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Mon, 18 Aug 2014 12:57:10 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator><![CDATA[tellthebartender]]></dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Podcast]]></category> <category><![CDATA[By Brooklyn]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Chris Gethard]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Chris Gethard Show]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Citizen radio]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Craigslist ad or casting notice]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Jamie Kilstein]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Katharine Heller]]></category> <category><![CDATA[shawn t. andrew]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Stories]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Ted Leo and the Pharmacists]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Tell the Bartender]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Tell The Bartender Live]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category> <category><![CDATA[union hall]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://tellthebartender.com/?p=580</guid> <description><![CDATA[Listen to Episode 41: LIVE with Jamie Kilstein and Chris Gethard! Download From iTunes Here In this Episode: The Bartender is joined by Jamie Kilstein and Chris Gethard for another wonderful live show. PLUS a listener shout out, and we play Craigslist Ad or Casting Notice with Shawn T. Andrew! Recorded at Union Hall in Brooklyn, NY. Photos taken [&#8230;]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://pixel.wp.com/b.gif?host=tellthebartender.com&#38;blog=43650175&#38;post=580&#38;subd=tellthebartender&#38;ref=&#38;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /> <br />(<a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2014/08/18/episode-41-live-with-jamie-kilstein-and-chris-gethard/">via <a href="http://tellthebartender.com">Tell The Bartender</a></a>)</br>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://traffic.libsyn.com/tellthebartender/Live2.m4a" target="_blank">Listen to Episode 41: LIVE with Jamie Kilstein and Chris Gethard!</a></p><p><a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/tell-the-bartender/id595892497" >Download From iTunes Here</a></p><p>In this Episode:</p><p>The Bartender is joined by <a href="http://jamiekilstein.com/" >Jamie Kilstein</a> and <a href="http://thechrisgethardshow.com/" >Chris Gethard</a> for another wonderful live show. PLUS a listener shout out, and we play Craigslist Ad or Casting Notice with Shawn T. Andrew! Recorded at Union Hall in Brooklyn, NY.</p><p>Photos taken by the amazing Tom Scola:</p><p><a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/08/10624085_1552907084933313_5552166956284034806_o.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-584" src="http://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/08/10624085_1552907084933313_5552166956284034806_o.jpg?w=625&#038;h=468" alt="10624085_1552907084933313_5552166956284034806_o" width="625" height="468" /></a></p><p><a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/08/1795353_1552907131599975_2747538202246901946_o.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-585" src="http://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/08/1795353_1552907131599975_2747538202246901946_o.jpg?w=625&#038;h=468" alt="1795353_1552907131599975_2747538202246901946_o" width="625" height="468" /></a></p><p><a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/08/10497891_1552907391599949_3374100023363366927_o.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-586" src="http://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/08/10497891_1552907391599949_3374100023363366927_o.jpg?w=625&#038;h=468" alt="10497891_1552907391599949_3374100023363366927_o" width="625" height="468" /></a><a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/08/10497891_1552907391599949_3374100023363366927_o.jpg"><br /> </a><a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/08/10517615_1552905458266809_7617401589796177671_o.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-587" src="http://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/08/10517615_1552905458266809_7617401589796177671_o.jpg?w=625&#038;h=468" alt="10517615_1552905458266809_7617401589796177671_o" width="625" height="468" /></a><a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/08/10557513_1552906288266726_3195066425496233457_o.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-588" src="http://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/08/10557513_1552906288266726_3195066425496233457_o.jpg?w=625&#038;h=468" alt="10557513_1552906288266726_3195066425496233457_o" width="625" height="468" /></a></p><p><a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/08/10620462_1552906771600011_8695027058448170901_o.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-591" src="http://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/08/10620462_1552906771600011_8695027058448170901_o.jpg?w=625&#038;h=468" alt="10620462_1552906771600011_8695027058448170901_o" width="625" height="468" /></a><a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/08/10608241_1552906451600043_889677551865507415_o.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-589" src="http://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/08/10608241_1552906451600043_889677551865507415_o.jpg?w=625&#038;h=468" alt="10608241_1552906451600043_889677551865507415_o" width="625" height="468" /></a></p><p><a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/08/10608311_1552906794933342_7845544548102481209_o.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-590" src="http://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/08/10608311_1552906794933342_7845544548102481209_o.jpg?w=625&#038;h=468" alt="10608311_1552906794933342_7845544548102481209_o" width="625" height="468" /></a></p><p>Music Credits:</p><p>“Setting Sun” by Chris Powers</p><p>“Bottled in Cork” by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/artist/ted-leo-and-the-pharmacists/id216650487" >Ted Leo &amp; The Pharmacists</a></p><p> <a rel="nofollow" href="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/gocomments/tellthebartender.wordpress.com/580/"><img alt="" border="0" src="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/comments/tellthebartender.wordpress.com/580/" /></a> <img alt="" border="0" src="http://pixel.wp.com/b.gif?host=tellthebartender.com&#038;blog=43650175&#038;%23038;post=580&#038;%23038;subd=tellthebartender&#038;%23038;ref=&#038;%23038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /></p><p class="syndicated-attribution"><br><a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2014/08/18/episode-41-live-with-jamie-kilstein-and-chris-gethard/"><b>Source: Tell The Bartender</b></a><br> <a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2014/08/18/episode-41-live-with-jamie-kilstein-and-chris-gethard/">http://tellthebartender.com/2014/08/18/episode-41-live-with-jamie-kilstein-and-chris-gethard/</a></p>]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/08/18/tell-the-bartender-episode-41-live-with-jamie-kilstein-and-chris-gethard/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> <enclosure url="http://traffic.libsyn.com/tellthebartender/Live2.m4a" length="26875302" type="audio/mpeg" /> </item> <item><title>Tell the Bartender Episode 40: Get Your Kink On With Bastard Keith (And Constable Teasebottom)</title><link>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/08/04/tell-the-bartender-podcast-episode-40-get-your-kink-on-with-bastard-keith-and-constable-teasebottom/</link> <comments>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/08/04/tell-the-bartender-podcast-episode-40-get-your-kink-on-with-bastard-keith-and-constable-teasebottom/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Tue, 05 Aug 2014 01:13:27 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator><![CDATA[tellthebartender]]></dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Podcast]]></category> <category><![CDATA[bartending]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Bastard Keith]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Burlesque]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Katharine Heller]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Stories]]></category> <category><![CDATA[struggle bus]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Ted Leo and the Pharmacists]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Tell the Bartender]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://tellthebartender.com/?p=572</guid> <description><![CDATA[Listen to Episode 40: Get Your Kink On With Bastard Keith (And Constable Teasebottom) Download From iTunes Here In this episode: Bastard Keith and The Bartender get personal about kinks, his sexual journey and awakenings, and the best way to deal with a heckler. Also, we cover &#8220;water sports&#8221;, creative one-night stands, new ways to describe various sex [&#8230;]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://pixel.wp.com/b.gif?host=tellthebartender.com&#38;blog=43650175&#38;post=572&#38;subd=tellthebartender&#38;ref=&#38;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /> <br />(<a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2014/08/05/episode-40-get-your-kink-on-with-bastard-keith-and-constable-teasebottom/">via <a href="http://tellthebartender.com">Tell The Bartender</a></a>)</br>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://traffic.libsyn.com/tellthebartender/BKeithFinal_2.m4a" >Listen to Episode 40: Get Your Kink On With Bastard Keith (And Constable Teasebottom)</a></p><p><a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/tell-the-bartender/id595892497" >Download From iTunes Here</a></p><p>In this episode:</p><p>Bastard Keith and The Bartender get personal about kinks, his sexual journey and awakenings, and the best way to deal with a heckler. Also, we cover &#8220;water sports&#8221;, creative one-night stands, new ways to describe various sex acts, and there&#8217;s a special appearance from a character known as Constable Teasebottom. This episode is NSFW but really, none of them are.</p><p>PLUS listener shout outs, tickets are available <a href="http://www.unionhallny.com/event/628949" >here</a> for the next live show on August 14th with Chris Gethard and Jamie Kilstein AND check out Katharine&#8217;s advice show with Sally Tamarkin called <a href="https://strugglebuspodcast.wordpress.com/" >The Struggle Bus</a>! Like the show? <a href="http://tellthebartender.com/tips/" >Tip</a> me! Or give the show <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/tell-the-bartender/id595892497" >5 stars</a>!</p><p><a href="http://www.bastardkeith.com/" >Bastard Keith</a> is burlesque MC, actor, performer and all around great guy and if you follow him on <a href="https://twitter.com/BastardKeith" >Twitter</a> your life will change for the better. Here he is looking dashing:</p><p><a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/08/bastard-keith.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-574" src="http://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/08/bastard-keith.jpg?w=300&#038;h=200" alt="Bastard-Keith" width="300" height="200" /></a></p><p>Music Credits:</p><p>“Setting Sun” by Chris Powers</p><p>&#8220;Every Day Is Like Sunday&#8221; by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/everyday-is-like-sunday-disappointed/id326624293" >Morrissey</a></p><p>&#8220;Going Up&#8221; by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/artist/infant-sorrow/id277611840" >Infant Sorrow</a></p><p>“Bottled in Cork” by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/artist/ted-leo-and-the-pharmacists/id216650487" >Ted Leo &amp; The Pharmacists</a></p><p> <a rel="nofollow" href="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/gocomments/tellthebartender.wordpress.com/572/"><img alt="" border="0" src="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/comments/tellthebartender.wordpress.com/572/" /></a> <img alt="" border="0" src="http://pixel.wp.com/b.gif?host=tellthebartender.com&#038;blog=43650175&#038;%23038;post=572&#038;%23038;subd=tellthebartender&#038;%23038;ref=&#038;%23038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /></p><p class="syndicated-attribution"><br><a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2014/08/05/episode-40-get-your-kink-on-with-bastard-keith-and-constable-teasebottom/"><b>Source: Tell The Bartender</b></a><br> <a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2014/08/05/episode-40-get-your-kink-on-with-bastard-keith-and-constable-teasebottom/">http://tellthebartender.com/2014/08/05/episode-40-get-your-kink-on-with-bastard-keith-and-constable-teasebottom/</a></p>]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/08/04/tell-the-bartender-podcast-episode-40-get-your-kink-on-with-bastard-keith-and-constable-teasebottom/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> <enclosure url="http://traffic.libsyn.com/tellthebartender/BKeithFinal_2.m4a" length="22159976" type="audio/mpeg" /> </item> <item><title>Tell the Bartender Episode 39: First Impressions</title><link>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/07/21/tell-the-bartender-episode-39-first-impressions/</link> <comments>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/07/21/tell-the-bartender-episode-39-first-impressions/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Mon, 21 Jul 2014 14:35:13 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator><![CDATA[tellthebartender]]></dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Podcast]]></category> <category><![CDATA[and she bakes]]></category> <category><![CDATA[bartending]]></category> <category><![CDATA[daliya karnofsky]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Janeane Garofalo]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Katharine Heller]]></category> <category><![CDATA[marty scanlon]]></category> <category><![CDATA[sally tamarkin]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Stories]]></category> <category><![CDATA[struggle bus]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Ted Leo and the Pharmacists]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Tell the Bartender]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://tellthebartender.com/?p=566</guid> <description><![CDATA[Listen to Episode 39: First Impressions Download From iTunes Here In this episode: The Curry Man:  Marty talks about &#8220;The Curry Man&#8221; who visits you in your sleep. This is real. Typhoon Of Shame: Sally shares a very personal tale about meeting her life long hero under the worst circumstances. It involves a famous person who was a guest on this show. PLUS [&#8230;]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://pixel.wp.com/b.gif?host=tellthebartender.com&#38;blog=43650175&#38;post=566&#38;subd=tellthebartender&#38;ref=&#38;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /> <br />(<a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2014/07/21/episode-39-first-impressions/">via <a href="http://tellthebartender.com">Tell The Bartender</a></a>)</br>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://traffic.libsyn.com/tellthebartender/FirstImpressions2.m4a" >Listen to Episode 39: First Impressions</a></p><p><a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/tell-the-bartender/id595892497" >Download From iTunes Here</a></p><p>In this episode:</p><p><em>The Curry Man</em>:  Marty talks about &#8220;The Curry Man&#8221; who visits you in your sleep. This is real.</p><p><em>Typhoon Of Shame</em>: Sally shares a very personal tale about meeting her life long hero under the worst circumstances. It involves a famous person who was a guest on this show.</p><p>PLUS The Bartender tells a story about meeting one of her personal idols AND listener shout-outs, info for some of The Bartender&#8217;s live shows, and an announcement of a new podcast Katharine will be co-hosting with Sally! It&#8217;s an advice show called &#8220;The Struggle Bus&#8221; and we want to hear YOUR questions about anything so email us at StruggleBusPodcast@gmail.com.</p><p>Like the show? <a href="http://tellthebartender.com/tips/" >Tip</a> me! Or give the show <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/tell-the-bartender/id595892497" >5 stars</a>!</p><p>ALSO see Katharine give out &#8220;love advice&#8221; as a guest on the latest episode of the awesome show <a href="http://www.andshebakes.com/" >And She Bakes</a> here!</p><p><span class='embed-youtube' style='text-align:center; display: block;'><iframe class='youtube-player' type='text/html' width='560' height='315' src='http://www.youtube.com/embed/ui83ZI87_s8?version=3&#038;rel=0&#038;%23038;fs=1&#038;%23038;showsearch=0&#038;%23038;showinfo=1&#038;%23038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;%23038;wmode=transparent' frameborder='0'></iframe></span></p><p>About Our Guests:</p><p><a href="http://martyscanlon.com/" >Marty Scanlon</a> is a brilliant performer, writer and person. He&#8217;s also great on <a href="https://twitter.com/mcscan" >Twitter</a>. Here he is making smeyes at the camera:</p><p><a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/07/883169_4793154344097_1284364876_o.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-568" src="http://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/07/883169_4793154344097_1284364876_o.jpg?w=300&#038;h=200" alt="883169_4793154344097_1284364876_o" width="300" height="200" /></a><a href="https://twitter.com/sallyt" >Sally Tamarkin</a> is everything. She is a brilliant <a href="http://www.slate.com/blogs/browbeat/2013/09/17/mad_men_best_episode_to_try_first_is_three_sundays_from_season_2.html" >writer</a>, friend, person, and she, too, is great on <a href="https://twitter.com/sallyt" >Twitter</a>. Don&#8217;t look at this photo of her if you can&#8217;t handle falling in love:</p><p><a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/07/1898058_10101740089518541_206651799_n.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-569" src="http://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/07/1898058_10101740089518541_206651799_n.jpg?w=300&#038;h=294" alt="1898058_10101740089518541_206651799_n" width="300" height="294" /></a></p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Music Credits:</p><p>“Setting Sun” by Chris Powers</p><p>&#8220;Happy&#8221; by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/crazy-for-you/id382095118" >Best Coast</a></p><p>&#8220;Hello Image&#8221; by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/artist/gold-streets/id261179228" >Gold Streets</a></p><p>&#8220;Little Babies&#8221; by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/dig-me-out/id3197515" >Sleater Kinney</a></p><p>&#8220;The Killing Moon&#8221; by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/artist/nouvelle-vague/id32183275" >Nouvelle Vague</a></p><p>&#8220;Four Provinces&#8221; by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/you-me/id382662312" >The Walkmen</a></p><p>&#8220;Don&#8217;t Look Back In Anger&#8221; by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/artist/oasis/id512633" >Oasis</a></p><p>“Bottled in Cork” by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/artist/ted-leo-and-the-pharmacists/id216650487" >Ted Leo &amp; The Pharmacists</a></p><p> <a rel="nofollow" href="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/gocomments/tellthebartender.wordpress.com/566/"><img alt="" border="0" src="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/comments/tellthebartender.wordpress.com/566/" /></a> <img alt="" border="0" src="http://pixel.wp.com/b.gif?host=tellthebartender.com&#038;blog=43650175&#038;%23038;post=566&#038;%23038;subd=tellthebartender&#038;%23038;ref=&#038;%23038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /></p><p class="syndicated-attribution"><br><a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2014/07/21/episode-39-first-impressions/"><b>Source: Tell The Bartender</b></a><br> <a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2014/07/21/episode-39-first-impressions/">http://tellthebartender.com/2014/07/21/episode-39-first-impressions/</a></p>]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/07/21/tell-the-bartender-episode-39-first-impressions/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> <enclosure url="http://0.gravatar.com/avatar/0975b89c48d2fc9b7ab4940d0615a2be?s=96&amp;amp;d=identicon&amp;amp;r=G" length="" type="" /> <enclosure url="http://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/07/883169_4793154344097_1284364876_o.jpg?w=300" length="" type="" /> <enclosure url="http://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/07/1898058_10101740089518541_206651799_n.jpg?w=300" length="" type="" /> <enclosure url="http://traffic.libsyn.com/tellthebartender/FirstImpressions2.m4a" length="19612954" type="audio/mpeg" /> </item> <item><title>Tell the Bartender Episode 38: Incognito</title><link>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/07/07/tell-the-bartender-episode-38-incognito/</link> <comments>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/07/07/tell-the-bartender-episode-38-incognito/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Mon, 07 Jul 2014 13:51:04 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator><![CDATA[tellthebartender]]></dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Podcast]]></category> <category><![CDATA[bartending]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Citizen radio]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Jenny Jaffe]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Katharine Heller]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Keith and the Girl]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Michael Izquierdo]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Stories]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Tell the Bartender]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://tellthebartender.com/?p=555</guid> <description><![CDATA[Listen to Episode 38: Incognito Download From iTunes Here In this episode: Michael Izquierdo went to Canada to relax and work on some creative projects. Canadian immigration had a different idea about who he was. And Jenny Jaffe joins The Bartender to talk about what happens when you don&#8217;t read the instructions on edible pot chocolate. Let&#8217;s just say [&#8230;]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=tellthebartender.com&#38;blog=43650175&#38;post=555&#38;subd=tellthebartender&#38;ref=&#38;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /> <br />(<a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2014/07/07/episode-38-incognito/">via <a href="http://tellthebartender.com">Tell The Bartender</a></a>)</br>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://traffic.libsyn.com/tellthebartender/MichaelI2.m4a" >Listen to Episode 38: Incognito</a></p><p><a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/tell-the-bartender/id595892497" >Download From iTunes Here</a></p><p>In this episode:</p><p>Michael Izquierdo went to Canada to relax and work on some creative projects. Canadian immigration had a different idea about who he was. And Jenny Jaffe joins The Bartender to talk about what happens when you don&#8217;t read the instructions on edible pot chocolate. Let&#8217;s just say she wasn&#8217;t quite herself. Sadly, the Canadians didn&#8217;t get involved.</p><p><span style="color:#444444;font-family:'Open Sans', Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:14px;line-height:24px;">PLUS listener shout outs, </span><a style="line-height:24px;margin:0;padding:0;border:0;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;outline:none;color:#9f9f9f;font-family:'Open Sans', Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;" href="http://www.keithandthegirl.com/" >Keith and the Girl</a><span style="color:#444444;font-family:'Open Sans', Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:14px;line-height:24px;"> and </span><a style="line-height:24px;margin:0;padding:0;border:0;font-size:14px;vertical-align:baseline;outline:none;color:#9f9f9f;font-family:'Open Sans', Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;" href="https://twitter.com/CitizenRadio" >Citizen Radio</a><span style="color:#444444;font-family:'Open Sans', Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:14px;line-height:24px;"> shout outs, and news about the next live show! Also,</span> The Bartender get personal in her latest appearance on Keith and the Girl <a href="http://www.keithandthegirl.com/Show-Detail/3337/The-2-Minute-Competition.aspx" >here</a>. Like the show? <a href="http://tellthebartender.com/tips/" >Tip</a> me! Or give the show <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/tell-the-bartender/id595892497" >5 stars</a>!</p><p><a href="http://michaelizquierdo.com/" >Michael Izquierdo</a> is an amazing actor, writer, producer and <a href="https://twitter.com/mxizquierdo" >person</a>. Here he is on a roof somewhere:</p><p><a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/07/894789_10151552014446285_1498364962_o.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-556" src="http://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/07/894789_10151552014446285_1498364962_o.jpg?w=300&#038;h=300" alt="894789_10151552014446285_1498364962_o" width="300" height="300" /></a></p><p><a href="http://www.jennyjaffe.com/" >Jenny Jaffe</a> is a writer, comedian, <a href="http://foreverdogproductions.com/portfolio/talkin-henderson-the-definitive-podcast-about-mrs-henderson-presents/" >podcaster</a>, and kicks ass on <a href="https://twitter.com/jennyjaffe" >Twitter</a>. Here she is on a regular Sunday:</p><p><a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/07/183537_1660125137328_2625164_n.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-557" src="http://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/07/183537_1660125137328_2625164_n.jpg?w=254&#038;h=300" alt="183537_1660125137328_2625164_n" width="254" height="300" /></a></p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Music Credits:</p><p>“Setting Sun” by Chris Powers</p><p>“Roll With It” by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/gb/music-video/roll-with-it/id373807841" >Oasis</a></p><p>“Sinope” by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/dysnomia/id679378282" >Dawn of Midi</a></p><p>“Knives Out” by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/knives-out-single/id726139421" >Radiohead</a></p><p>“Bottled in Cork” by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/artist/ted-leo-and-the-pharmacists/id216650487" >Ted Leo &amp; The Pharmacists</a></p><p> <a rel="nofollow" href="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/gocomments/tellthebartender.wordpress.com/555/"><img alt="" border="0" src="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/comments/tellthebartender.wordpress.com/555/" /></a> <img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=tellthebartender.com&#038;blog=43650175&#038;%23038;post=555&#038;%23038;subd=tellthebartender&#038;%23038;ref=&#038;%23038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /></p><p class="syndicated-attribution"><br><a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2014/07/07/episode-38-incognito/"><b>Source: Tell The Bartender</b></a><br> <a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2014/07/07/episode-38-incognito/">http://tellthebartender.com/2014/07/07/episode-38-incognito/</a></p>]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/07/07/tell-the-bartender-episode-38-incognito/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> <enclosure url="http://traffic.libsyn.com/tellthebartender/MichaelI2.m4a" length="22816278" type="audio/mpeg" /> </item> <item><title>Tell the Bartender Episode 37: London Calling</title><link>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/06/23/tell-the-bartender-episode-37-london-calling/</link> <comments>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/06/23/tell-the-bartender-episode-37-london-calling/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Mon, 23 Jun 2014 16:04:32 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator><![CDATA[tellthebartender]]></dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Podcast]]></category> <category><![CDATA[anne zander]]></category> <category><![CDATA[bartending]]></category> <category><![CDATA[fat gay vegan]]></category> <category><![CDATA[featured]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Katharine Heller]]></category> <category><![CDATA[sean tucker]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Stories]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Ted Leo and the Pharmacists]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Tell the Bartender]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://tellthebartender.com/?p=546</guid> <description><![CDATA[Listen to Episode 37: London Calling Download From iTunes Here In this Episode: When To Tell The Bartender: Anne Zander used to bartend. She gives some good advice about how not to hit on your server, and speaks from her own personal experience about the one time the tables were turned. It didn&#8217;t go so well. The X-Pastor: [&#8230;]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=tellthebartender.com&#38;blog=43650175&#38;post=546&#38;subd=tellthebartender&#38;ref=&#38;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /> <br />(<a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2014/06/23/episode-37-london-calling/">via <a href="http://tellthebartender.com">Tell The Bartender</a></a>)</br>]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://traffic.libsyn.com/tellthebartender/London2.m4a" >Listen to Episode 37: London Calling</a></p><p><a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/tell-the-bartender/id595892497" >Download From iTunes Here</a></p><p>In this Episode:</p><p><em>When To Tell The Bartender</em>: <a href="http://annezander.com/" >Anne Zander</a> used to bartend. She gives some good advice about how not to hit on your server, and speaks from her own personal experience about the one time the tables were turned. It didn&#8217;t go so well.</p><p><em>The X-Pastor</em>: <a href="http://www.seantucker.photography/" >Sean Tucker</a> used to be a pastor. He talks about the fascinating journey that led him away from the church.</p><p>PLUS listener shout outs and an impromptu appearance from Katharine&#8217;s favorite Twitterer <a href="https://twitter.com/FatGayVegan" >Fat Gay Vegan</a>! Like what you hear? <a href="http://tellthebartender.com/tips/" >Tip</a> me! Or give the show <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/tell-the-bartender/id595892497" >5 stars</a>!</p><p>Here is a photo of Anne and me in London, or is it America?</p><p><a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/06/a.jpg"><img class="aligncenter wp-image-547 size-medium" src="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/06/a.jpg?w=300&#038;h=296" alt="a" width="300" height="296" /></a></p><p>Sean Tucker, looking mighty fine:</p><p><a href="https://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/06/10443168_10152451854076140_1766371647275874886_o.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-548" src="http://tellthebartender.files.wordpress.com/2014/06/10443168_10152451854076140_1766371647275874886_o.jpg?w=300&#038;h=298" alt="10443168_10152451854076140_1766371647275874886_o" width="300" height="298" /></a></p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Music Credits:</p><p>“Setting Sun” by Chris Powers</p><p>&#8220;London&#8221; by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/artist/the-smiths/id829538" >The Smiths</a></p><p>“Not From London” by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/petula-62-ep/id619347296" >Petula 62</a></p><p>&#8220;Kingdom of Doom&#8221; by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/ie/album/kingdom-of-doom-single/id726132525" >The Good, the Bad &amp; the Queen</a></p><p>“Bottled in Cork” by <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/artist/ted-leo-and-the-pharmacists/id216650487" >Ted Leo &amp; The Pharmacists</a></p><p> <a rel="nofollow" href="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/gocomments/tellthebartender.wordpress.com/546/"><img alt="" border="0" src="http://feeds.wordpress.com/1.0/comments/tellthebartender.wordpress.com/546/" /></a> <img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=tellthebartender.com&#038;blog=43650175&#038;%23038;post=546&#038;%23038;subd=tellthebartender&#038;%23038;ref=&#038;%23038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" /></p><p class="syndicated-attribution"><br><a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2014/06/23/episode-37-london-calling/"><b>Source: Tell The Bartender</b></a><br> <a href="http://tellthebartender.com/2014/06/23/episode-37-london-calling/">http://tellthebartender.com/2014/06/23/episode-37-london-calling/</a></p>]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://brooklynbugle.com/2014/06/23/tell-the-bartender-episode-37-london-calling/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> <enclosure url="http://traffic.libsyn.com/tellthebartender/London2.m4a" length="63560535" type="audio/mpeg" /> </item> </channel> </rss>